Just Cruz'n Podcast Ep. 37 - Albino Adonis | Couples, Gaming, Anime & Production! 🎮✨

So she'll just be off camera, but she's got a mic, so she can have her voice.

What's the point? When you're in a partnership like that, you know, in a relationship, it's important to be able to hear the voices on both.

And so even if you're not on camera, at least you can hear the voice.

Absolutely.

So...

Thank you, Nadia, for cruising with us as well.

Happy to be here.

Thanks.

So you had brought up a really cool point about advocating for yourself, especially in the fetish world, because we were talking about how difficult it is as a solo creator.

And so Nadia had mentioned about you need to be able to advocate for yourself on these customs.

Please explain a little bit more on what you were saying.

Yeah, I was saying, you know, it's interesting because you go into these, like you were talking about earlier, how it's really hard.

You know, you are the, you're the writer, you're the producer, you're the actor, you're the director, you are the editor, the lighting, the sound, everything in these productions.

And so people... get it in their head that they can just send you this concept and it's really cool because they get to become their own director of their own video or their own content and it's great that you offer this custom experience but you also have to be really in tune with your boundaries you know what i mean so just because somebody's requesting something and they're willing to pay you for it doesn't necessarily mean that that's something that you should just do you know and so um That has to translate to like even your work with other partners as well.

So you might work with, you know, you might do a collaboration with another content creator and they might have certain boundaries.

You might have certain boundaries, but those are conversations you guys have to have.

Because if you don't, you know, you could accidentally cross somebody's boundary.

You don't know it.

And

people have to be willing to advocate for themselves.

You know, that's the other thing.

It's like if you're not willing to advocate for yourself, this might not be the industry for you.

You're just going to keep putting yourself in a position, you know.

And it's all about comfort level, too.

If you're not comfortable with something, then say no. It's okay because you have that right.