Unboxed Identity

So would you say you're at a peace now?

As much as so, how do I put this? So I'm living my life so that I will die satisfied.

Oh,

that's good.

And what that means is at any moment, because we don't know when that moment is going to come, so that every moment of my life has to be finding a way back to satisfaction, even if things aren't working and I have to find a way to get

there.

So that is how I live my life is that I keep putting myself back to a state of, am I contributing the way I want to contribute? Am I expressing myself the way I want to contribute? Am I surrounding myself with the people that make me the best version of myself? And if I'm not, then what do I need to do differently to have that in my

life? Opposed to living a

fraud.

And I very much was living a fraud.

I was really, really good at living a fraud for years and years.

And it pains me to see other people doing that.

Yes, yes.

And I loved it when you said, well, first of all, we all going to die.

And I really think it's a gift that we're all here, the individuals that are present.

That is a gift.

And I also believe that we're not just here just to be here.

That's something that we should contribute, like serve or do something.

And why not just bask in that and try to figure out what it is.

Now, now that you have fully experienced One of the things you said was transformation is not an event.

It's a practice.

Yes.

What does that mean?

So I don't think I'm fully formed yet, and I don't think I'll ever get fully formed.

I think I will continue to form until I stop living.

So would you say you're at a peace now?

As much as so, how do I put this? So I'm living my life so that I will die satisfied.

Oh,

that's good.

And what that means is at any moment, because we don't know when that moment is going to come, so that every moment of my life has to be finding a way back to satisfaction, even if things aren't working and I have to find a way to get

there.

So that is how I live my life is that I keep putting myself back to a state of, am I contributing the way I want to contribute? Am I expressing myself the way I want to contribute? Am I surrounding myself with the people that make me the best version of myself? And if I'm not, then what do I need to do differently to have that in my

life? Opposed to living a

fraud.

And I very much was living a fraud.

I was really, really good at living a fraud for years and years.

And it pains me to see other people doing that.

Yes, yes.

And I loved it when you said, well, first of all, we all going to die.

And I really think it's a gift that we're all here, the individuals that are present.

That is a gift.

And I also believe that we're not just here just to be here.

That's something that we should contribute, like serve or do something.

And why not just bask in that and try to figure out what it is.

Now, now that you have fully experienced One of the things you said was transformation is not an event.

It's a practice.

Yes.

What does that mean?

So I don't think I'm fully formed yet, and I don't think I'll ever get fully formed.

I think I will continue to form until I stop living.