Aug 19, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min · 10 segments
Alyssa Ljub is an intimacy and relationship expert who coaches dozens of couples a day in her role as a concierge at Arya. She joins Em and Cass to unpack the biggest hurdles couples hit when it comes…
Alyssa LjubGuestEmmaHostCassHostOne, and a and.
You're a gem shine when the light grows dim.
Sing one, two, three, four, three, two, one.
'Cause no one can do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.
'Cause no one can do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it
Hello and welcome back to Honey Do Me Podcast.
I'm Emma.
And I'm Cass, and this is a space where we like to talk about sex, relationships, mental health, friendship, really anything that we're interested in.
But also that we-
[laughs]
... thought would come a lot easier than it ended up coming.
Mm.
Uh, we didn't end up coming as much as we thought [laughs] we would as adults.
[laughs]
And we thought there was something wrong with us, and we were embarrassed, and we didn't wanna tell our friends because it's like, "Oh, my God, what are they gonna think of me?" And it turns out we are all going through the exact same things, whether that is a dry spell in our relationship, a, like, shitty time in our relationship, struggling with our body, feeling insecure.
Whatever it is, you are not alone, you are not special, and that is the best thing in the world.
Mm-hmm.
Okay, stop burying the lead.
You have stuff for me, and I wanna know it.
[laughs]
Yes.
Okay.
So I'll just get right into it.
Yeah.
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One, and a and.
You're a gem shine when the light grows dim.
Sing one, two, three, four, three, two, one.
'Cause no one can do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it.
'Cause no one can do it like we do it, like we do it, like we do it
Hello and welcome back to Honey Do Me Podcast.
I'm Emma.
And I'm Cass, and this is a space where we like to talk about sex, relationships, mental health, friendship, really anything that we're interested in.
But also that we-
[laughs]
... thought would come a lot easier than it ended up coming.
Mm.
Uh, we didn't end up coming as much as we thought [laughs] we would as adults.
[laughs]
And we thought there was something wrong with us, and we were embarrassed, and we didn't wanna tell our friends because it's like, "Oh, my God, what are they gonna think of me?" And it turns out we are all going through the exact same things, whether that is a dry spell in our relationship, a, like, shitty time in our relationship, struggling with our body, feeling insecure.
Whatever it is, you are not alone, you are not special, and that is the best thing in the world.
Mm-hmm.
Okay, stop burying the lead.
You have stuff for me, and I wanna know it.
[laughs]
Yes.
Okay.
So I'll just get right into it.
Yeah.
