Sep 29, 2026 · 1 hr 11 min · 12 segments
In this episode of Flip That Switch, I spoke with Rich Dunning, author of Silence Was My First Language, to discuss childhood trauma, addiction, sobriety, and rebuilding his life. Rich opened up about…
Rich DunningGuestBrandonHostOh, absolutely.
Absolutely.
Wow.
That's an astounding statistic.
Eighty percent of men commit suicide because they don't have a
Wow.
I think that's one of the reasons why I wanted to start doing this because I wanted to give people an outlet.
And so what I've learned in life is, and I'm probably a little bit younger than you, but what I've learned in life is that people just don't have the outlet.
But the reason why people don't have the outlet, it's not because... it's not because people don't want to utilize the outlets.
People aren't very welcoming to people who have issues going on, right? It's like, if I know that my friend or my neighbor or somebody is going through something, how do I create an environment to where they can be vulnerable and open up to me And the problem is we don't create those type of environments.
You know, it's kind of like one of those things where as long as I'm good, as long as my family's good, then that's the only thing I'm concerned about, I'm worried about.
But when it comes to other people who are actually experiencing things, who just need someone to come to them and give them a hug or be like, you know what, man, it's going to be all right, you know, or pray for them.
We don't create that type of environment.
And I think that's where society struggles.

I don't want to minimize it because there are some people that are doing very good work.

I'm not minimizing the people who do good work and there are, but some of these jokers, they got more issues that they can't deal with themselves and they're trying to help someone else.
Oh, absolutely.
Absolutely.
Wow.
That's an astounding statistic.
Eighty percent of men commit suicide because they don't have a
Wow.
I think that's one of the reasons why I wanted to start doing this because I wanted to give people an outlet.
And so what I've learned in life is, and I'm probably a little bit younger than you, but what I've learned in life is that people just don't have the outlet.
But the reason why people don't have the outlet, it's not because... it's not because people don't want to utilize the outlets.
People aren't very welcoming to people who have issues going on, right? It's like, if I know that my friend or my neighbor or somebody is going through something, how do I create an environment to where they can be vulnerable and open up to me And the problem is we don't create those type of environments.
You know, it's kind of like one of those things where as long as I'm good, as long as my family's good, then that's the only thing I'm concerned about, I'm worried about.
But when it comes to other people who are actually experiencing things, who just need someone to come to them and give them a hug or be like, you know what, man, it's going to be all right, you know, or pray for them.
We don't create that type of environment.
And I think that's where society struggles.

I don't want to minimize it because there are some people that are doing very good work.

I'm not minimizing the people who do good work and there are, but some of these jokers, they got more issues that they can't deal with themselves and they're trying to help someone else.
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