Define Your Own Wedding Priorities
Couples should define their own wedding priorities
Is there anything looking back, you're, you're a year, a year out from this, did you have any, like, um, bridal blues, sad it's all over, happy it's all over? What, where were you in the, like, weeks and months after the wedding?
Well, I just remember just being in the hotel room after the wedding was over, and it just felt like a relief that it's all over, but also just like, "Now what are we gonna do?" Like, "The wedding's over.
I guess we-"
Yeah
... "focus on your sister's wedding?" It's just-
Yeah, 'cause it's like your brain, like, here's this thing that's taken up, like, 80% of my brain for the last, you know, year and a half since be-
... getting engaged, and, like, 90% of it in the last two weeks.
Um, and then all of a sudden that's gone, and it's like there's nothing to fill it in.
And that's just, I wish, I kind of, uh, maybe a more low-key thing, not like a true, like, 'cause I've been to some weddings where there's, like, a big brunch the next morning, but just to, like-
... get together-
Wind down
... wind down, and, like, dish, and, like, who, um, like, oh-
... did you see so-and-so dancing with so-and-so? Or, like, kind of the-
... all of those little things, like the debrief the next morning.
'Cause then it was like, "Our wedding's over, and I just wanna talk about our wedding." [chuckles]
And like-
... who had the time and all of that kind of stuff.
Is there anything looking back, you're, you're a year, a year out from this, did you have any, like, um, bridal blues, sad it's all over, happy it's all over? What, where were you in the, like, weeks and months after the wedding?
Well, I just remember just being in the hotel room after the wedding was over, and it just felt like a relief that it's all over, but also just like, "Now what are we gonna do?" Like, "The wedding's over.
I guess we-"
Yeah
... "focus on your sister's wedding?" It's just-
Yeah, 'cause it's like your brain, like, here's this thing that's taken up, like, 80% of my brain for the last, you know, year and a half since be-
... getting engaged, and, like, 90% of it in the last two weeks.
Um, and then all of a sudden that's gone, and it's like there's nothing to fill it in.
And that's just, I wish, I kind of, uh, maybe a more low-key thing, not like a true, like, 'cause I've been to some weddings where there's, like, a big brunch the next morning, but just to, like-
... get together-
Wind down
... wind down, and, like, dish, and, like, who, um, like, oh-
... did you see so-and-so dancing with so-and-so? Or, like, kind of the-
... all of those little things, like the debrief the next morning.
'Cause then it was like, "Our wedding's over, and I just wanna talk about our wedding." [chuckles]
And like-
... who had the time and all of that kind of stuff.
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Define Your Own Wedding Priorities
Couples should define their own wedding priorities
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