Standing Up for Kindness
Ann defends optimism against cynical literary critiques
Design Matters with Debbie Millman
Jun 15, 2026 · 30 min · 11 segments
Ann Patchett is the bestselling author of ten novels, including Bel Canto, Commonwealth, The Dutch House, and Tom Lake, the co-owner of Parnassus Books, and the recipient of numerous literary honors…
Her nine novels include Bel Canto and The Dutch House, which was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize.
I was struck by the fact that when you interviewed Tom Hanks in front of a live audience, right before you took the stage, you whispered to him-
... that you didn't have any questions planned, and you were just going to wing it.
Um, I gasped out loud when I read that because I'm probably most known for how long it takes me to create and craft my questions in advance of every interview.
So as I take out my notes, um, I hope you won't think less of me for doing that tonight.
Al- I interview so many people at Parnassus, and I interviewed Alan for a book he wrote that was called If I Knew What You Were Saying, Why Do I Have This Look on My Face?
But Alan was the person who taught me that you have to do all the preparation, research, write the questions, throw it out, walk on stage, and be fully present.
And he completely changed my life when I, when I read that book and when I interviewed him.
[laughs] Well, I'm going to aspire to be the kind of person that can just throw caution to the wind, um, and, and maybe when I interview you next-
Her nine novels include Bel Canto and The Dutch House, which was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize.
I was struck by the fact that when you interviewed Tom Hanks in front of a live audience, right before you took the stage, you whispered to him-
... that you didn't have any questions planned, and you were just going to wing it.
Um, I gasped out loud when I read that because I'm probably most known for how long it takes me to create and craft my questions in advance of every interview.
So as I take out my notes, um, I hope you won't think less of me for doing that tonight.
Al- I interview so many people at Parnassus, and I interviewed Alan for a book he wrote that was called If I Knew What You Were Saying, Why Do I Have This Look on My Face?
But Alan was the person who taught me that you have to do all the preparation, research, write the questions, throw it out, walk on stage, and be fully present.
And he completely changed my life when I, when I read that book and when I interviewed him.
[laughs] Well, I'm going to aspire to be the kind of person that can just throw caution to the wind, um, and, and maybe when I interview you next-
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