Jul 22, 2026 · 52 min · 13 segments
**PART TWO of our Two Part Series: A night out at a baseball game turns into a modern true-crime nightmare.** When devoted mother and nurse Ingrid Lyne vanishes after an online date, her family…
John comes in and he's calm.
He's pleasant and cooperative.
He's dressed in jeans, a jacket, and a T-shirt.
He's clean-cut looking.
And if you didn't know the backstory, he could have easily been mistaken for a guy there to report a stolen bike, not someone that was being grilled over a woman's brutal murder.
The detectives had already dug into John's Plenty of Fish dating profile, and he went by John Charles.
His profile said nonsmoker, average build, Capricorn, some college education, 5'9", 37 years old, self-described free thinker, looking for friendships, not serious dating.
His main photo was him in a white T-shirt leaning back in his chair, looking off-camera with a side smile.
He also had that star sunglasses picture and another one with a female.
To me, these were the typical dating profile pictures.
You want one that's fun.
You want one with friends, maybe one with a girl to show that you can pull a woman.
You probably know all about, you know, the standard operating procedures for a dating profile.
So John had these light green eyes, dark hair, and the all-American look to him, which I think would definitely be enticing, especially with the way he put his profile together.
For the About Me section, he wrote, "My intent here is to simply make friends and meet up for a good conversation.
Not much of the crowded bar or club type.
Mellow and quiet is more my scene."
And like I said, that would be appealing to many women.
So sure, maybe he wasn't looking for anything serious, but Ingrid specifically had just gotten back into the dating scene, so it kinda takes the pressure off to think that you're just meeting for a good conversation and nice company.
For his first date, he wrote, "I'm not here for dating, only friendships.
This us..." I think he meant is.
Yeah, he totally made a typo.
"Not some scam to get laid either.
However, if we did meet as friends, we could grab coffee, beer, comedy show, et cetera.
Whatever people do as friends, basically."
John comes in and he's calm.
He's pleasant and cooperative.
He's dressed in jeans, a jacket, and a T-shirt.
He's clean-cut looking.
And if you didn't know the backstory, he could have easily been mistaken for a guy there to report a stolen bike, not someone that was being grilled over a woman's brutal murder.
The detectives had already dug into John's Plenty of Fish dating profile, and he went by John Charles.
His profile said nonsmoker, average build, Capricorn, some college education, 5'9", 37 years old, self-described free thinker, looking for friendships, not serious dating.
His main photo was him in a white T-shirt leaning back in his chair, looking off-camera with a side smile.
He also had that star sunglasses picture and another one with a female.
To me, these were the typical dating profile pictures.
You want one that's fun.
You want one with friends, maybe one with a girl to show that you can pull a woman.
You probably know all about, you know, the standard operating procedures for a dating profile.
So John had these light green eyes, dark hair, and the all-American look to him, which I think would definitely be enticing, especially with the way he put his profile together.
For the About Me section, he wrote, "My intent here is to simply make friends and meet up for a good conversation.
Not much of the crowded bar or club type.
Mellow and quiet is more my scene."
And like I said, that would be appealing to many women.
So sure, maybe he wasn't looking for anything serious, but Ingrid specifically had just gotten back into the dating scene, so it kinda takes the pressure off to think that you're just meeting for a good conversation and nice company.
For his first date, he wrote, "I'm not here for dating, only friendships.
This us..." I think he meant is.
Yeah, he totally made a typo.
"Not some scam to get laid either.
However, if we did meet as friends, we could grab coffee, beer, comedy show, et cetera.
Whatever people do as friends, basically."
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