Nov 1, 2026 · 48 min · 11 segments
**In this practical and compassionate episode, Ashley welcomes Christian anger coach, podcaster, and bereaved mom Elizabeth to discuss a topic that many grieving mothers experience but few feel…
Elizabeth AndreyevskiyGuest
Ashley OpligerHostI think it's helpful to just talk about the anger or the grieving cycle again.
So when there is a big event happening like that, you experience a loss.
And then you go into denial and then you go to anger and then you go to depression and then you go to acceptance.
And sometimes you get to depression, then go back to anger and then go to depression and acceptance.
But in my case, I remember when I came home, I was just very emotionally flooded.
And I went through something difficult a couple of years before that was very emotional.
It was like a marital thing, but it taught me how to process and release emotions in a healthy way.
But a lot of women, typically there's three main ways people process emotions.
Either do it with their words or words and body and they say and do hurtful things or other ways is to stuff it down internally and then you start feeling that resentment and bitterness.
It can even lead to more depression because you're not processing it.
And then it comes out with a lot of like passive aggressive comments and behavior towards others.
And usually it's your closest family because they're right there next to you.
Or there's the healthy way to process emotions, what we'll talk about.
So unless you've learned how to process emotions in a healthy way, typically you go to the unhealthy pattern.
I think it's helpful to just talk about the anger or the grieving cycle again.
So when there is a big event happening like that, you experience a loss.
And then you go into denial and then you go to anger and then you go to depression and then you go to acceptance.
And sometimes you get to depression, then go back to anger and then go to depression and acceptance.
But in my case, I remember when I came home, I was just very emotionally flooded.
And I went through something difficult a couple of years before that was very emotional.
It was like a marital thing, but it taught me how to process and release emotions in a healthy way.
But a lot of women, typically there's three main ways people process emotions.
Either do it with their words or words and body and they say and do hurtful things or other ways is to stuff it down internally and then you start feeling that resentment and bitterness.
It can even lead to more depression because you're not processing it.
And then it comes out with a lot of like passive aggressive comments and behavior towards others.
And usually it's your closest family because they're right there next to you.
Or there's the healthy way to process emotions, what we'll talk about.
So unless you've learned how to process emotions in a healthy way, typically you go to the unhealthy pattern.
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