Oct 16, 2026 · 1 hr 17 min · 24 segments
Every human village compared. Grandmothers ranked grandchildren at Thanksgiving, and elders weighed families before a marriage was blessed, yet those hands held the ruler with a history of you inside…
Zo WilliamsHostPrecious McGillGuest
... do we compare while we're in relationship with our partner, like an internal comparison? Like, "Oh, their, their career is doing better than mine.
Wow, why do they keep getting opportunities and I..." And you in the relationship.
And just taking what the great Murti just said about how comparison is that seed of psychological fear-
There's also that comparison when people say, "Oh, I look at so-and-so and they're in such a happy relationship.
... do we compare while we're in relationship with our partner, like an internal comparison? Like, "Oh, their, their career is doing better than mine.
Wow, why do they keep getting opportunities and I..." And you in the relationship.
And just taking what the great Murti just said about how comparison is that seed of psychological fear-
There's also that comparison when people say, "Oh, I look at so-and-so and they're in such a happy relationship.
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