Where Our Thoughts Go, Energy Flows

You know, since, since it's been a while since we've been here, um, last year, toward the end of the year, Tommy and I had no choice but to separate.

We spent about a month and a half getting acclimated into our new homes, moving out of the family home where, you know, Shams was for a majority of his life, six, six plus years.

His first [laughs] first six months, we lived in the Hollywood Hills in that sick glass house, m- post, um, excuse me, the mid-century modern with the polished concrete floors and the walls of glass, and that was the house that we did, uh, Shahs of Sunset, and oh my God, like, I got married in that house.

I had my bed rest pregnancy in that house.

My father perished and passed away in that house.

I did a lot of healing and a lot of celebrating of beautiful things in that house, um, the one that we moved out of once Shams was six months old.

And then I had this vision board, and I made it to be married with children in Calabasas.

So long story short, short story long, last year was when Tommy and I moved out of a family home that we were in for about six years.

Right now, I am sitting in my forever home that I bought this summer.

Uh, it gives me chills.

I'm, like, complete utter shock and, like, gratitude that I was able to do this.

This is a really, really big deal, and I'm looking out the window from my studio right now in complete and utter awe of this new fresh start.

So, uh, we'll talk about, more about things like that later.

But I think that Tommy and I fall into a very rare category of separated people.

I would like to really genuinely hear about your stories of breakups or redefining a relationship, a new normal, a separation, a divorce, how you got there, how you got through it, because, you know, these are topics that I can take into our next guest and our next episode.

But right now, just us sitting here talking, I'm just thinking, you know, I really feel like Tommy and I are creating our new standard of a, a beautiful thing with Shams.

Like, I can see how Sha- how happy he is when the three of us hang out, and I'm so grateful for it.

And I'll tell you, like, we go to baseball games.

People see us.

I know a lot of people are curious, like, and coming from a good place, though, curious about, like, are they together? Are they not? And it's like, well, they're happy.

And I think that people see us happy.

I have to tell you, like, we just started a new school year, and we have a new teacher.

There's a lot of things to go into, um, you know, in these coming weeks in the new episodes, that we're gonna have at least one out every week.

And the way I feel is, like, I have eyes.

I see, I see Shams.