302: Day 23 of 31 to Thriving: Your next biggest client could be one moment away

But so many people are giving their power away and giving their energy away to the results and the actual things that they see right in front of them.

When I show up on Instagram, I very much do it from the mindset that I don't know who is watching this.

Like, I don't know who is about to see this.

I don't know if one person is going to suddenly see a carousel that I've just created and message me saying, Tara, what's your top tier offer? And I'm like, 20K.

I have no idea if I'm going to get a collaboration request from somebody through something that I put out there.

I have no idea.

You have no idea who is watching.

And you will actually have people watching that firstly, you don't recognize who they are or you don't know who they are.

But secondly, you will have people that are quietly watching your actions behind the scenes who are almost waiting for the proof and the concept and the evidence that you are the one for them.

I remember years and years and years ago, one of my now clients, she first signed up in 2019.

She sent me a message and she basically just said that she had been following me for years.

She'd been watching my stories, but it was because I shared that I have a bit of OCD and I put matching pegs on the washing line.

Like I cannot hang an item with unmatching pegs.

And it was that one thing that made her reach out.

Seven years later, she is still a client today.

She still comes to my events.

She still does occasional little one-to-one things.

She is still in my world today.

And that's incredible.

But I didn't recognize her.

I didn't know her name.

When she first reached out to me, I did not know her name.

I hadn't seen her like.

I hadn't seen her comment.

I hadn't seen her reply to stories.