The World's Tightest Community - A Podcast About Vulvodynia, Vaginismus & Women's Pelvic Pain
Jul 6, 2026 · 54 min · 13 segments
What does it actually cost to get diagnosed with vulvodynia in America, and what happens in the absense of adequate care? In this episode, I sit down with Carmen Rising, a writer based in Brooklyn…
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It's cheaper to buy a product that you saw on Instagram than it is to see a specialist that costs $2,000.

People will always naturally take matters into their own hands when medicine fails them.
[gentle music] What does it actually cost to get taken seriously when you're in pain? For the average woman with vulvovaginal or pelvic pain in the US, it's about $18,000 a year paid entirely out of pocket.
Welcome back to the World's Tightest Community.
I am your host, Mathilde, and my guest today is Carmen Rising, a Brooklyn-based writer whose reporting on vulvovaginal pain has recently run in The New York Times and The Guardian.
She came to this as a patient herself, and in this episode, we get into the real economics of chronic pelvic pain, why the insurance system fails these conditions almost by design, and how an unregulated wellness industry has rushed in to fill the gap medicine left wide open.
I was so grateful to go into even more detail on the topics Carmen raised in these articles, because I think she offers a really sharp structural critique of what happens in the wake of the immense void that's left when people with vulvovaginal pain don't get access to the care they need.
Enjoy the episode.
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It's cheaper to buy a product that you saw on Instagram than it is to see a specialist that costs $2,000.

People will always naturally take matters into their own hands when medicine fails them.
[gentle music] What does it actually cost to get taken seriously when you're in pain? For the average woman with vulvovaginal or pelvic pain in the US, it's about $18,000 a year paid entirely out of pocket.
Welcome back to the World's Tightest Community.
I am your host, Mathilde, and my guest today is Carmen Rising, a Brooklyn-based writer whose reporting on vulvovaginal pain has recently run in The New York Times and The Guardian.
She came to this as a patient herself, and in this episode, we get into the real economics of chronic pelvic pain, why the insurance system fails these conditions almost by design, and how an unregulated wellness industry has rushed in to fill the gap medicine left wide open.
I was so grateful to go into even more detail on the topics Carmen raised in these articles, because I think she offers a really sharp structural critique of what happens in the wake of the immense void that's left when people with vulvovaginal pain don't get access to the care they need.
Enjoy the episode.