Too Much vs. Not Enough | Understanding the Enneagram Type Four with Sonja Scott

Send us Fan Mail **Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type Four | Episode 3 of 4** What if the thing you've been told is too much... is exactly what the world needs from you? In this episode, Amy sits down with Wholehearted Coach and Type Four Sonja Scott to walk the Victim, Villain, Hero, and Guide framework through the Four's unique lens, and what emerges is one of the most honest maps of the Four's inner landscape this series has offered. Sonja brings both her personal story and her coaching work with women and families to a question every Four has lived: how do you stop erasing yourself long enough to discover that your depth was never the problem? You'll hear about: - The rejection wound at the root of the Four's Victim story and how it can quietly become self-rejection - Self-erasure as the Four's Villain role, the slow disappearing act that looks like keeping the peace - The pivot moment in Sonja's own story that marked the beginning of her second volume - Being the hero in everyone else's story before learning to be the hero in your own - The difference between carrying someone's story and embodying it and what healthy Guide energy actually looks like for a Four - The too much vs. not enough pendulum and the Voice of Love that tells the Four she is exactly right - Raising teenagers as a Four and how she is learning to stay attuned without getting stuck in the mud with them - Why when we deem parts of ourselves unworthy, we lose our place in the plot of God's story *You are not too much. You were made to feel deeply, and the world needs what only you can name.* **Connect with Sonja Scott:** https://www.iamenneanough.com/ **or** https://www.instagram.com/tscott0523/  https://www.wholeheartedenneagrambook.com/ **Pre-order *Wholehearted Enneagram* today!** What if transformation doesn't start with trying harder, but with knowing you're already beloved? In my new book, *Wholehearted Enneagram: The Journey from Type to Transformation as God's Beloved*, you'll walk alongside nine women, one for each Type, through stories, Scripture, breath prayers, and tree metaphors that reframe what growth re Support the show **RESOURCES FOR YOU:** **Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks** https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks **Not sure about your Enneagram Type?** Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz **Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram** (free course + printables) https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide **Connect with Amy:** IG Website