Jul 30, 2026 · 26 min · 12 segments
When you became a stepmom, you probably expected your life to change. What you may not have expected was how easy it would be to lose yourself in the process. Between navigating stepfamily dynamics…
Amy NesbittGuestCameron NormandHost
So I'm going to start with so many moms I talk to have a hard time telling me what they do just for them and what makes them smile that isn't related to their kids or other people.

And that just kept coming back to me because we were born curious, right? When we look at kids, they ask why about everything and annoyingly so sometimes.

And especially I think as we hit motherhood and all the responsibilities and the expectations and all the things that we try to live up to.

And it's the curiosity for me that has really brought back joy and opened up doors to things that I never thought I would do, you know, five years ago, 10 years ago that have brightened my life and people around me in huge ways.

And it often comes from just saying, okay, what if I try that thing? Or, well, why do I do it this way? And just asking things of fun, things that we already do, or things that perhaps we keep saying later, maybe I'll do that later when the kids are older, or, oh, maybe I'll do that when I get my promotion, or, oh, I'll do that thing.

All these things that we say later, and I just heard someone say later is the most expensive word in the dictionary? I was like, oh, it is.
I don't know how many conversations I have with girlfriends where I'm like, oh, I really want to go there someday.
Like, how can we figure out ways to kind of grab those opportunities and take them now versus always waiting? It's

And I think curiosity, we think about it in such a big way of, I have to go take this huge trip or I have to write this book or whatever those huge goals are.

So I'm going to start with so many moms I talk to have a hard time telling me what they do just for them and what makes them smile that isn't related to their kids or other people.

And that just kept coming back to me because we were born curious, right? When we look at kids, they ask why about everything and annoyingly so sometimes.

And especially I think as we hit motherhood and all the responsibilities and the expectations and all the things that we try to live up to.

And it's the curiosity for me that has really brought back joy and opened up doors to things that I never thought I would do, you know, five years ago, 10 years ago that have brightened my life and people around me in huge ways.

And it often comes from just saying, okay, what if I try that thing? Or, well, why do I do it this way? And just asking things of fun, things that we already do, or things that perhaps we keep saying later, maybe I'll do that later when the kids are older, or, oh, maybe I'll do that when I get my promotion, or, oh, I'll do that thing.

All these things that we say later, and I just heard someone say later is the most expensive word in the dictionary? I was like, oh, it is.
I don't know how many conversations I have with girlfriends where I'm like, oh, I really want to go there someday.
Like, how can we figure out ways to kind of grab those opportunities and take them now versus always waiting? It's

And I think curiosity, we think about it in such a big way of, I have to go take this huge trip or I have to write this book or whatever those huge goals are.
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