Aug 31, 2026 · 34 min · 9 segments
One of the hardest things to face is the reality of a situation. It’s so much easier to hide from what’s happening, but when we decide to do something about frustrating circumstances, that’s when we…
Chrystal Evans HurstHostSo I want you to grow up and I want you to grow up because I want you to stop blaming yourself and being overly humble.
I want you to stop being to blame and I want them to stop being to blame for the confidence, the power and the agency that your father in heaven has already given you.
Many of us are stuck in our lives because we keep giving away our power and You can be overly humble because humility is thinking I'm not less of yourself.
Even if the thinking that you're doing too much of yourself is lowering yourself.
If you're overthinking about yourself, even if it's thinking about how do you make yourself lower, that's still not humility.
It's like, and some of us, because we love Jesus have overextended humility.
Where we are so consumed with being humble that we have put ourselves beneath the bar.
So we have overextended and we are way past humility and into pride because we are giving too much blame to somebody else because it can't be our fault.
And I want you to grow up because the minute you realize that you have choices and it's not all your fault or all their fault or whoever's fault it is, it don't matter because you can still decide to obey God.
The minute that you decide to move forward in that is the minute you start to mature because you are not beholden to your own insecurities and you are not beholden to their mishaps or mistakes.
So how can we do that? There's a lot of words floating out in the world today.
And I want to tell you what I mean when I'm saying what I'm about to say.
OK, when I say gaslighting, gaslighting is when someone causes you to question or distrust your own perception of what happened, your memory, your experience or what you know to be true.
So I want you to grow up and I want you to grow up because I want you to stop blaming yourself and being overly humble.
I want you to stop being to blame and I want them to stop being to blame for the confidence, the power and the agency that your father in heaven has already given you.
Many of us are stuck in our lives because we keep giving away our power and You can be overly humble because humility is thinking I'm not less of yourself.
Even if the thinking that you're doing too much of yourself is lowering yourself.
If you're overthinking about yourself, even if it's thinking about how do you make yourself lower, that's still not humility.
It's like, and some of us, because we love Jesus have overextended humility.
Where we are so consumed with being humble that we have put ourselves beneath the bar.
So we have overextended and we are way past humility and into pride because we are giving too much blame to somebody else because it can't be our fault.
And I want you to grow up because the minute you realize that you have choices and it's not all your fault or all their fault or whoever's fault it is, it don't matter because you can still decide to obey God.
The minute that you decide to move forward in that is the minute you start to mature because you are not beholden to your own insecurities and you are not beholden to their mishaps or mistakes.
So how can we do that? There's a lot of words floating out in the world today.
And I want to tell you what I mean when I'm saying what I'm about to say.
OK, when I say gaslighting, gaslighting is when someone causes you to question or distrust your own perception of what happened, your memory, your experience or what you know to be true.
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