Oct 5, 2026 · 44 min · 15 segments
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So a lot of people, yeah, have been asking about cool-- like how to be cool, but this is what's, this is what's provoked this topic in me.
Tr- trying to be cool, watching content, how to be a cool girl, ultimate cool girl, this is the least cool thing you can possibly do, right? And also the word cool, let's think about it.
So for example, this is what I'm-- 'cause I do a lot of content obviously where I'm joking, doing different characters, and I'm doing like a, a twenty twenty-six diva.
If you love matcha, beige-colored things, you like to holiday in Dubai, you like a matching set, you like Pilates, you are so-- And you, 'cause you genuinely like it, yeah? You are so much cooler than someone who forces an '80s aesthetic, who likes indie underground bands because they think they're getting cool points for doing that and they think they're cooler than you.
You're not, you're not any less cool, yeah? 'Cause you like, you know, the, you're the, the Molly-Mae babe, you like all that, than someone who's a little bit kooky and has a whole like throwback aesthetic.
'Cause we're all borrowing as, as in both parties are borrowing an aesthetic.
Does this understand? So like if you're kinda doing like the whole Molly-Mae like matcha thing, slick backing your hair and all this, and people are calling you uncool and kind of just like boring and bland and, and you're, you're really uncool 'cause you're following aesthetic.
But then you're getting c- called uncool by someone who is borrowing like an '80s aesthetic and listening to maybe heavy metal and they think they're so much cooler than you because they're doing that.
If you're doing, you know, the s- the classic like, "I, I love rose glazing milk.
Love it." If you're doing all that and you genuinely like it, you're cooler than someone who's trying to earn cool points that by d- by doing a whole like throwback kooky vibe.
Do you understand what I'm saying? It's not about what it is you're doing and what aesthetic you're embodying.
It's about why you're doing it, whether it's authentic to you, how, where you've got it from, and whether you're genuine.
Because the minute, the minute anything you're doing or any vibe you're kinda like giving off becomes about you wanting to be seen as cool, you're the least c- cool person ever.
And I think a lot of people think because I do these jokey skit videos where I'm like, "A twenty twenty-six diva with a slick back and rose glazing milk." I think it's really funny.
It's a jokey character of both sides, right? I think a lot of people will assume that's the negative one.
So a lot of people, yeah, have been asking about cool-- like how to be cool, but this is what's, this is what's provoked this topic in me.
Tr- trying to be cool, watching content, how to be a cool girl, ultimate cool girl, this is the least cool thing you can possibly do, right? And also the word cool, let's think about it.
So for example, this is what I'm-- 'cause I do a lot of content obviously where I'm joking, doing different characters, and I'm doing like a, a twenty twenty-six diva.
If you love matcha, beige-colored things, you like to holiday in Dubai, you like a matching set, you like Pilates, you are so-- And you, 'cause you genuinely like it, yeah? You are so much cooler than someone who forces an '80s aesthetic, who likes indie underground bands because they think they're getting cool points for doing that and they think they're cooler than you.
You're not, you're not any less cool, yeah? 'Cause you like, you know, the, you're the, the Molly-Mae babe, you like all that, than someone who's a little bit kooky and has a whole like throwback aesthetic.
'Cause we're all borrowing as, as in both parties are borrowing an aesthetic.
Does this understand? So like if you're kinda doing like the whole Molly-Mae like matcha thing, slick backing your hair and all this, and people are calling you uncool and kind of just like boring and bland and, and you're, you're really uncool 'cause you're following aesthetic.
But then you're getting c- called uncool by someone who is borrowing like an '80s aesthetic and listening to maybe heavy metal and they think they're so much cooler than you because they're doing that.
If you're doing, you know, the s- the classic like, "I, I love rose glazing milk.
Love it." If you're doing all that and you genuinely like it, you're cooler than someone who's trying to earn cool points that by d- by doing a whole like throwback kooky vibe.
Do you understand what I'm saying? It's not about what it is you're doing and what aesthetic you're embodying.
It's about why you're doing it, whether it's authentic to you, how, where you've got it from, and whether you're genuine.
Because the minute, the minute anything you're doing or any vibe you're kinda like giving off becomes about you wanting to be seen as cool, you're the least c- cool person ever.
And I think a lot of people think because I do these jokey skit videos where I'm like, "A twenty twenty-six diva with a slick back and rose glazing milk." I think it's really funny.
It's a jokey character of both sides, right? I think a lot of people will assume that's the negative one.
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