Sep 23, 2026 · 22 min · 12 segments
Have you ever wondered if you’ve lost yourself by becoming the person you thought you needed to be for others? In this episode, I’ll show you how childhood conditioning, relationships, society, and…
Rob DialHost
In today's episode, I'm really gonna talk to you about why you really as a person and as someone who has an identity and develops a personality, why you actually need to lose yourself in your lifetime so that you can come back around and find yourself, hopefully find yourself in your lifetime.
Now, the reason why I say this and the reason why I am hopeful for you is because you have now become aware.
And you've gotten to the point where you realize that in order to make your life better, in order to improve your life, you need to work on yourself.
One of the things that you'll find throughout your journey of self-development, I've been on mine now for 19 years.
One of the things that you'll find is that it's actually really the path of self-development is really the path of self-discovery, of rediscovering who you truly are and becoming more and more of your truest self.
They haven't been told that they're not good enough, not smart enough, not pretty enough.
They haven't developed thoughts because thoughts come from language and they haven't developed any of that.
And as I mentioned in the last episode, as time goes on, we are changed from our truest self.
We're changed by seeing advertisements and thinking to ourselves, damn, I must not be good enough.
So I need to change myself so that I look more like her, so that I look more like him.
And really, it kind of turns into this situation where we mold ourselves into somebody that we think we need to be in order to fit in and in order to be accepted.
In today's episode, I'm really gonna talk to you about why you really as a person and as someone who has an identity and develops a personality, why you actually need to lose yourself in your lifetime so that you can come back around and find yourself, hopefully find yourself in your lifetime.
Now, the reason why I say this and the reason why I am hopeful for you is because you have now become aware.
And you've gotten to the point where you realize that in order to make your life better, in order to improve your life, you need to work on yourself.
One of the things that you'll find throughout your journey of self-development, I've been on mine now for 19 years.
One of the things that you'll find is that it's actually really the path of self-development is really the path of self-discovery, of rediscovering who you truly are and becoming more and more of your truest self.
They haven't been told that they're not good enough, not smart enough, not pretty enough.
They haven't developed thoughts because thoughts come from language and they haven't developed any of that.
And as I mentioned in the last episode, as time goes on, we are changed from our truest self.
We're changed by seeing advertisements and thinking to ourselves, damn, I must not be good enough.
So I need to change myself so that I look more like her, so that I look more like him.
And really, it kind of turns into this situation where we mold ourselves into somebody that we think we need to be in order to fit in and in order to be accepted.
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