Jul 22, 2026 · 33 min · 6 segments
We’ve been friends for 10 years now, so we’d like to think that we’re experts at friendship. It’s easy to maintain a friendship when you see each other often, but it’s taken real and deliberate effort…
Jill ColemanHost
Dani JHost
Well, we were talking about the fact that it does take work to continue to see your friends if you don't live in the same place.
And I think it's really easy, especially with how much, and I'm putting myself in this bucket, how much people are burned out, how much activation and energy it takes to text back, to answer phone calls, to reach out to people who you love and you do care about, but it's like, oh, just get them back.
And before you know it, you can look up and you haven't seen someone for months or you haven't talked to them.
But a big reason why we have continued to do the show the nine years in December is because we have a standing appointment with each other each week.
So like, you know, we send each other memes and we chat on text throughout the week, but like, it's so great to just be able to like see you and just bullshit.
And it does take effort and not, you know, you and I, it being 10 years of friendship, you only really lived in LA in the same place as me for like two years, two and a half years.
Like it wasn't You know, like it wasn't like you live there the same amount of time, but we've managed to continue to see each other's lives and in a real way, which I think is really rare.
You know, we had a podcast episode and we've talked about this where we give advice should people start a podcast with their friend and we say no.
Well, we were talking about the fact that it does take work to continue to see your friends if you don't live in the same place.
And I think it's really easy, especially with how much, and I'm putting myself in this bucket, how much people are burned out, how much activation and energy it takes to text back, to answer phone calls, to reach out to people who you love and you do care about, but it's like, oh, just get them back.
And before you know it, you can look up and you haven't seen someone for months or you haven't talked to them.
But a big reason why we have continued to do the show the nine years in December is because we have a standing appointment with each other each week.
So like, you know, we send each other memes and we chat on text throughout the week, but like, it's so great to just be able to like see you and just bullshit.
And it does take effort and not, you know, you and I, it being 10 years of friendship, you only really lived in LA in the same place as me for like two years, two and a half years.
Like it wasn't You know, like it wasn't like you live there the same amount of time, but we've managed to continue to see each other's lives and in a real way, which I think is really rare.
You know, we had a podcast episode and we've talked about this where we give advice should people start a podcast with their friend and we say no.
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