Voice Memo Guy
Aug 12, 2026 · 1 hr 2 min · 12 segments
Week 2 of Consent Month, so OF COURSE we have to talk about the voice memo guy discourse.
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Aug 12, 2026 · 1 hr 2 min · 12 segments
Week 2 of Consent Month, so OF COURSE we have to talk about the voice memo guy discourse.
So I've heard a little bit about voice memo guy.
You've researched it thoroughly, I believe, at this point.
I played the voice memo in question for you, yes.
Was it just the one voice memo and then all of the discourse that spawned off of that, or were there more communications?
That was the one and only voice memo.
And without playing it for you or quoting it directly, I will give you all the gist.
If you haven't heard it yet, I encourage you to go listen to it.
But after a single date, this man sent a voice memo to a woman essentially saying, "Hey, really liked our date.
Had a good time.
Think you're nice and all that.
However, if I'm going to come to your place," definitely implying that they were setting plans to meet a second time.
He says, "I'd really be looking to have that physical intimacy.
I'm looking for that sexual spark.
I really...
It's hard for me to date people if I don't know that we're sexually compatible.
So if I'm gonna come over, I would be hoping to hook up, have sex, have a good time.
Maybe we could have some wine and chill, and that'd be great, but I guess my thing is, like, what would even be the point of me coming over if we're not gonna hook up? So I know you said that you don't know about that, but, like, for my sake, [laughs] I really need to hook up.
So if we're not gonna have sex on the second time that we see each other, let's just call it quits right here, and we can go our separate ways." I promise you that was not verbatim, but I also promise you it wasn't that far off.
[laughs] I am not intentionally trying to exaggerate.
Yeah, from what I remember, that basically summed it up.
Yeah, so, uh, I know what my take is, hearing that.
[laughs] What's your take?
Well, I'm wondering how much I should say now and how much I should say after we get into a bit more of the discourse, 'cause I think that's where you could cut through or argue against some things a bit more.
But I guess right off the bat, what I was looking up when you were introducing the voice memo was what is Hinge's UX like.
So I've heard a little bit about voice memo guy.
You've researched it thoroughly, I believe, at this point.
I played the voice memo in question for you, yes.
Was it just the one voice memo and then all of the discourse that spawned off of that, or were there more communications?
That was the one and only voice memo.
And without playing it for you or quoting it directly, I will give you all the gist.
If you haven't heard it yet, I encourage you to go listen to it.
But after a single date, this man sent a voice memo to a woman essentially saying, "Hey, really liked our date.
Had a good time.
Think you're nice and all that.
However, if I'm going to come to your place," definitely implying that they were setting plans to meet a second time.
He says, "I'd really be looking to have that physical intimacy.
I'm looking for that sexual spark.
I really...
It's hard for me to date people if I don't know that we're sexually compatible.
So if I'm gonna come over, I would be hoping to hook up, have sex, have a good time.
Maybe we could have some wine and chill, and that'd be great, but I guess my thing is, like, what would even be the point of me coming over if we're not gonna hook up? So I know you said that you don't know about that, but, like, for my sake, [laughs] I really need to hook up.
So if we're not gonna have sex on the second time that we see each other, let's just call it quits right here, and we can go our separate ways." I promise you that was not verbatim, but I also promise you it wasn't that far off.
[laughs] I am not intentionally trying to exaggerate.
Yeah, from what I remember, that basically summed it up.
Yeah, so, uh, I know what my take is, hearing that.
[laughs] What's your take?
Well, I'm wondering how much I should say now and how much I should say after we get into a bit more of the discourse, 'cause I think that's where you could cut through or argue against some things a bit more.
But I guess right off the bat, what I was looking up when you were introducing the voice memo was what is Hinge's UX like.
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