Marriage Hot Takes: Conflict, Money, In-Laws

Andy and Stacie Wood on the marriage questions that didn't fit in Episode 3: how to fight, what to do about money, phones at 9:30 at night, what a single person should look for, forgiveness, and in-laws. This is the bonus round. Watch Episode 3, "Are You Married, or Just Roommates?", first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iq7Q2S5aq1U Rapid fire, on a thirty-second clock Andy ignores: why your spouse is never the problem and what "stay at the table" means when you disagree. Die to yourself on the small stuff (go eat where your wife wants to eat). The class Andy and Stacie took at 21 that changed how they handle money. Why phones need tight boundaries inside the home. What to look for in a spouse: how they treat their family, the wake they leave behind them, and the football-stands test. What Andy and Stacie tell their kids when a couple they know gets divorced. Why forgiveness is not the same as trust, and the Corrie ten Boom story Andy can't tell in thirty seconds. And what to do when parents are too involved in their kids' marriage. Married, engaged, or single and paying attention, this one is for you. THE WEEKEND MESSAGE This conversation started with "Stronger Marriages," taught by Andy and Stacie Wood: https://youtu.be/XFandtFb3A8 ONE THING TO DO THIS WEEK Pick one hot take and run it for seven days. Phones down at 9:30. One meal where your spouse picks. One thing you've been holding onto that you forgive out loud. If you're single: look at the wake. Then send this to someone who needs the eleven minutes. RESOURCES MENTIONED Financial tools and resources at Saddleback: https://saddleback.com/sections/resources/financial-tools/ CHAPTERS 0:00 Coming up 0:39 Welcome to the first bonus episode 1:01 Andy: best advice on conflict 1:21 Stacie: what do you do when you disagree? 2:12 Die to yourself: go where your wife wants to eat 2:20 Andy: best advice on money in marriage 3:03 Stacie: phones in marriage, yes or no? 4:01 Andy: what should a single person look for in a spouse? 5:30 The football-stands test 5:48 Stacie: what do you tell your kids when people you know get divorced? 6:56 Andy: how important is forgiveness in marriage? 7:40 The Corrie ten Boom story 8:51 "I don't think you understand hot takes" 9:05 Stacie: when parents are too involved in their kids' marriage 10:52 One last hot take 10:59 Next week: Stronger Homes SCRIPTURE IN THIS EPISODE Genesis 2:24 · Luke 9:23 · Ephesians 4:31-32 · Hebrews 12:15 NEW EPISODES EVERY MONDAY Every episode: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOvtcV3aqv-M Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id6812944219 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MhCJU9jhDFc89e5HwigDw Show site: https://stronger.saddleback.com Stronger is recorded at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, California, and every episode starts with what was taught that weekend. Wherever you're listening from, this is for you too. Find a campus or join online: https://saddleback.com You were never meant to be strong on your own. #StrongerWithAndyWood #AndyWood #StacieWood #Saddleback #Marriage