Sep 8, 2026 · 54 min · 16 segments
**Class is in session, babies.** This week, Tessa & Shan present **The Gentlewoman’s Guide to Being a Better Partner,** aka all the things women wish their partners just *got* without having to be…
So look, in your experience, it's fair to say
that men are the problem.
I think, look, it always takes two to tango.
And looking back, I don't think I ever gave a fuck enough with a guy.
So I wouldn't have been maybe the ultimate partner because I I think you need to care.
But I just think there is so much more that women get naturally and it's just innate in them that better meet a woman's need than a man.
Like, you know, we joke about women are from Venus, men are from Mars kind of situation and we are different species, right? We are.
So when you're dealing with a relationship where you are made from the same good bits, you know, have the same bits, rub bits, I feel like it works really fucking well.
And
that's not
to
say that there aren't men out there who are fucking incredible.
Oh, yeah, and very in tune with their...
And in tune and just get it as well without having the bits.
Like my favourite couple that G and I always... send each other reels and fucking TikToks and all that.
great.
Are you actually kidding me? He is such a gentleman.
He just gets it.
He does.
But there's not
many men out there like that, like
genuinely.
And he just like adores her, like the way he looks at her.
Do you know how many clips I see of him? uh ushering her through a crowd and whatever but if someone tries to touch him he's he's like hands and hands behind his back he's so mindful
So look, in your experience, it's fair to say
that men are the problem.
I think, look, it always takes two to tango.
And looking back, I don't think I ever gave a fuck enough with a guy.
So I wouldn't have been maybe the ultimate partner because I I think you need to care.
But I just think there is so much more that women get naturally and it's just innate in them that better meet a woman's need than a man.
Like, you know, we joke about women are from Venus, men are from Mars kind of situation and we are different species, right? We are.
So when you're dealing with a relationship where you are made from the same good bits, you know, have the same bits, rub bits, I feel like it works really fucking well.
And
that's not
to
say that there aren't men out there who are fucking incredible.
Oh, yeah, and very in tune with their...
And in tune and just get it as well without having the bits.
Like my favourite couple that G and I always... send each other reels and fucking TikToks and all that.
great.
Are you actually kidding me? He is such a gentleman.
He just gets it.
He does.
But there's not
many men out there like that, like
genuinely.
And he just like adores her, like the way he looks at her.
Do you know how many clips I see of him? uh ushering her through a crowd and whatever but if someone tries to touch him he's he's like hands and hands behind his back he's so mindful
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