Vasectomy Reversal to Pregnancy Loss…Do We Keep Trying?

Maegan and Kris share the full, unfiltered story of their vasectomy reversal, the pregnancy that followed, and the miscarriage that changed everything they thought they knew about what was next. What starts as a hopeful conversation in a DoorDash car ride turns into months of research, a cross-state search for the right specialist, an emotional positive test, and then a devastating loss. From there, the episode becomes something even more honest: a reckoning with grief, aging, sleep deprivation, marriage, and the real-life math of raising a growing family.  You’ll hear Maegan and Kris break down: - Why they originally chose a vasectomy, and what reopened the door years later - How they researched reversal specialists, costs, and why they avoided the wrong clinics - What the reversal procedure and recovery were really like - The early pregnancy signs that made them hopeful for twins - What the miscarriage felt like physically and emotionally, day by day - Why their minds shifted from “one more” to “maybe we’re done” - How they worked through grief, guilt, and the pressure of family expectations This is not a tidy story with easy answers. It is about wanting something deeply, losing it, and deciding what peace looks like after the dust settles. It also offers a rare, candid look at the pressure points inside a marriage when hope, fear, and logistics all collide. Perfect for anyone walking through fertility questions, miscarriage grief, family planning decisions, or the exhausting, beautiful chaos of raising kids and trying to make the right call for your home.