#93-From mailed Polaroids to sex clubs: 25 years of swinging with Quinn Ryan

I interview Quinn Ryan, a local creator I connected with on X, about her nearly 25 years in the swinger lifestyle and how it evolved from magazine personals, Polaroids, and off-site clubs like Society Couples in Mississauga to today’s on-premise venues. We compare experiences at Oasis and M4, including safety, etiquette issues, and the need to say no without people-pleasing. Quinn shares how she and her husband shifted from full swap to watching, BDSM, and later more selective play, plus her vetting questions (height, filming, hosting, husband watching). We discuss cuck dynamics, dom/sub misconceptions, and theme nights like DTF, gang bangs, and bukkake, and I invite her to join me at Oasis. We also talk about Hedonism, my upcoming trip as a speaker, and our fan pages and handles. *\*description written with the help of AI\** \*\*\*\** Check out my fan page (and my friends): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends⁠⁠⁠ **Content mentioned in this episode:** 1\. How to say no and mean it (advice video): https://youtu.be/aSOntDVdcmg 2\. ⁠ Join TorontoUnicorn in Hedo with Swinkation Oct 2026: https://torontounicorn.com/tu-updates/join-toronto-unicorn-at-hedonism 3\. Quinn Ryan's fan page: https://onlyfans.com/xxxquinnryan 4\. Quinn Ryan on X: https://x.com/xxxquinnryan \*\*\*\** Get your free **Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit** - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to go deeper? Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ \*\*\*\** **ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc):** ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ \*\*\*\** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ \*\*\*\** 🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *\*affiliate links provide me with a small commission\** 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ \*\*\*\** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices