#39 Finding Clarity After Betrayal: How to Make Big Decisions When Everything Feels Overwhelming — with Betsy Pake

When betrayal scrambles your sense of what's real, clarity can feel impossible. In this episode, I sit down with coach and master NLP practitioner Betsy Pake to talk about how women find their way back to their own truth when everything feels overwhelming. Betsy works with women navigating the painful question of whether to stay in or leave a marriage, and she brings a refreshingly non-prescriptive approach: the goal isn't to be told what to do, it's to reconnect with what you already know. Whether you're deep in the fog or just starting to come up for air, this conversation offers honest, grounded encouragement for taking the next small step. **Connect with Betsy Pake:**  www.betsypake.com www.instagram.com/betsypake Use code "rooted" for 50% off The Bridge. Betsy’s self paced program for women in her first steps of clarity. https://betsypake.com/the-bridge/ **Enjoyed This Episode?** If this conversation resonated with you, here are three ways you can support the show: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Leave a Review 💬 Join the Community 📲 **Share This Episode** **Connect With Me + Continue Your Healing** If today’s episode resonated with you, you don’t have to walk the healing journey after betrayal alone. I create trauma-informed resources, conversations, and learning experiences to support individuals and couples navigating infidelity, betrayal trauma, and relational repair. Here are a few ways to stay connected and continue your healing: **Join me at a Retreat or Intensive** If you’re craving deeper, in-person support and embodied healing, I’m helping facilitate upcoming experiences created specifically for betrayed partners. If you're ready for a deeper connection with your daughter(s), ⁠sign up for my upcoming retreat⁠ - **Becoming Together: A Mother Daughter Retreat** - hosted by myself and my two daughters in Sedona, Arizona on September 8 - 12th. Complete this⁠⁠⁠ Interest list for an upcoming course for parents called **Intentional Parenting After Betrayal**⁠⁠⁠⁠, hosted by Hali and her daughter, Morgan Ellsworth.  The⁠ ⁠⁠Courage to Thrive Betrayal Trauma Intensive⁠⁠⁠ takes place August 25-28 in Spanish Fork, Utah and offers a structured, trauma-informed space to understand betrayal trauma, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-trust. **Free Resources & Downloads** Access free tools, guided practices, and educational resources designed to support nervous system regulation, self-trust, boundaries, and clarity after betrayal. 👉⁠⁠A Mini Guide to Mindful Healing After Betrayal⁠⁠ 👉⁠⁠Your First Steps to Rising After Betrayal⁠⁠ **Upcoming Course: Reclaiming You After Betrayal** If you’re ready for deeper guidance in a structured, supportive format, I am offering a course focused on healing after betrayal, rebuilding self-trust, and grounding into your values and identity—without rushing decisions about staying or leaving. This course is ideal for those who want support without individual coaching and at a pace that honors their nervous system. 👉⁠ ⁠Join the Reclaiming You Waitlist to be the first to Register!⁠⁠ **Listen to My Other Podcast** If you are still in your relationship—or in the process of discerning whether you want to stay—I invite you to also follow my podcast, Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal, where I speak to both partners about healing, accountability, and rebuilding trust. 👉⁠ ⁠Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal⁠⁠ **Join My Newsletter** Stay connected through my newsletter, where I share reflections, trauma-informed insights, and updates on upcoming courses, workshops, retreats, and live experiences. 👉⁠ ⁠Rooted and Rising Weekly⁠⁠ **Connect With Me Between Episodes** Join me on social media for continued conversation, encouragement, and resources between podcast episodes. 👉 **Instagram**:⁠ ⁠@rootedandrising.healing⁠⁠ 👉 **Facebook**:⁠ ⁠Rooted and Rising Healing with Hali Roderick⁠⁠ 👉 **Website**:⁠⁠ ⁠rootedandrisinghealing.mykajabi.com⁠