Character Isn’t Chemistry: How to Stop Falling for Sparks and Start Seeing Who He Really Is | Chantel Hyde S4E5

Hi, Lisa.

My background is a deep study of social sciences, so sociology, psychology, anthropology, biology, evolutionary psychology, behaviorism, and meditation in combination with working as a stripper for twenty years.

So this is an environment where people don't have a facade.

This is an environment where people are having drinks, which is a truth serum.

This is an environment where males especially go, "You know what? It doesn't matter what I say.

It doesn't matter how I act.

It doesn't matter what kind of truths I tell.

I'm gonna leave all this behind after tonight, and there's not gonna be any repercussions." So when I would sit across from them and I would bring this scientific mind in a naked body wearing makeup and high heels, I was not seen as a threat whatsoever, so I got the truth from the men who were married and cheating.

I got the truth from the ones who were using women and taking advantage of the women who were bartering their bodies for attention.

I got the truth from the ones who were the kind of men that you would wanna select, because the truth was they were very hardworking and didn't have a lot of time for a relationship, but they had a heart of gold and they had the utmost loyalty.

Ugh.

I think your background is phenomenal, because I know one of the things that I see in your content is a lot of people, when you talk about the 90-day no-kissing rule that you have, a lot of people call you a prude or have all these thoughts about you, and I'm like, "If you guys only knew.

If you just watched just a handful of her videos, you would realize that she actually has a really interesting background," and you are the authority on this.