How can women tell the difference between attachment that's unhealthy versus a healthier attachment that's built over time?

And so this is why the three months is so important, because only time will tell.

That initial attraction when you, when you first meet somebody, it's not based on actual knowledge.

It's not based on an understanding of who they are as a person.

It's just based on what you see in front of your eyes.

So those first couple days, he seems to be chivalrous, he seems to be generous, but does that sustain itself to day eighty-five? Because it might be a facade, and it might be just trying to get into bed.

And an initial attraction is nothing more than procreation drive when it's not based on actually knowing who the person is.

It's disgusting to me.