Sep 27, 2026 · 23 min · 9 segments
The pretty version of fall is easy to want. You save the pictures in August, you think about the sweaters and the candles and the long, cozy evenings, and then somehow it's the middle of December, and…
So I have been putting a lot of thought into the best way to enjoy fall while waiting for the weather to slowly turn, turning very, very slowly here in Southern California.
And I'm doing this because I am very much so a woman who wants the beautiful version of the season, especially because it is my favorite time of year.
I start thinking about the fall fashion, the activities that I want to do with my kids and with my friends.
And the fact that LA seasons aren't as drastic of a change from one season to the next, especially compared to most other places, I feel that you do have to be a bit more intentional in order to make the most of this time of year.
And I do have a whole fall bucket list, but we'll be getting into that next Sunday.
It's instead about the in-between, the small day-to-day details that really allow you to capture the essence and romanticize the season.
So before I give you the list, let me say what I actually mean by romanticizing, because I do think that the word has gotten away from us a little bit.
So first off, I think at this point the word romanticize has been used so much online that it's turned into a filter.
Romanticizing something is just paying deliberate attention to the thing, whatever it may be, with a sense of gratitude and enjoyment while being in the moment.
It's the difference between drinking your tea while you scroll on your phone and drinking the same cup of tea while looking out the window and savoring the sweet taste of honey.
And it isn't about trying to make something look good for a photo or for social media.
Your brain stores what it is that you paid attention to and it files the rest as like a generic week.
Which is how three months can go by and genuinely leave you feeling like they happened to you while leaving absolutely nothing behind.
Now, more than likely, most things on this list are things you're going to do anyways.
So I have been putting a lot of thought into the best way to enjoy fall while waiting for the weather to slowly turn, turning very, very slowly here in Southern California.
And I'm doing this because I am very much so a woman who wants the beautiful version of the season, especially because it is my favorite time of year.
I start thinking about the fall fashion, the activities that I want to do with my kids and with my friends.
And the fact that LA seasons aren't as drastic of a change from one season to the next, especially compared to most other places, I feel that you do have to be a bit more intentional in order to make the most of this time of year.
And I do have a whole fall bucket list, but we'll be getting into that next Sunday.
It's instead about the in-between, the small day-to-day details that really allow you to capture the essence and romanticize the season.
So before I give you the list, let me say what I actually mean by romanticizing, because I do think that the word has gotten away from us a little bit.
So first off, I think at this point the word romanticize has been used so much online that it's turned into a filter.
Romanticizing something is just paying deliberate attention to the thing, whatever it may be, with a sense of gratitude and enjoyment while being in the moment.
It's the difference between drinking your tea while you scroll on your phone and drinking the same cup of tea while looking out the window and savoring the sweet taste of honey.
And it isn't about trying to make something look good for a photo or for social media.
Your brain stores what it is that you paid attention to and it files the rest as like a generic week.
Which is how three months can go by and genuinely leave you feeling like they happened to you while leaving absolutely nothing behind.
Now, more than likely, most things on this list are things you're going to do anyways.
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