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Jacqueline JarlGuestVivianHostVieneyHostHi guys, welcome back to another episode of No Mas, Yes Girls, where we, your hosts, Vivian and DNA, talk about our healing journey.
Hello, everyone.
Welcome back to another episode.
Yes.
And today is, I mean, every episode is special.
But today I get to have a very special friend.
She's actually become, became like one of my close friends within the last couple of years.
And also my neighbor.
But today's conversation is a really special one because I, Dr. Jacqueline, hence the doctor.
She just got her doctorate degree not that long ago.
So congratulations once again.
And when you hear her story on paper, you're probably going to think, How did she do all of this? Like she's first gen.
She comes from Taiwanese parents.
She built a successful corporate career.
And eventually she became financially free and was able to retire at only 38
years old.
Oh, my God.
Amazing for that.
I need to clap for that.
And but that's not actually part of.
the story I'm more curious about.
Because behind all of those accomplishments, there's a woman who had to grow, who had to change, who had to heal, and probably unlearn a lot along the way.
And I think sometimes we see successful people and And I think sometimes we see successful people after they've made it, but we don't really see the fear, the family expectations, the pressure to succeed, the mistakes, or the version of themselves they had to let go to become who they really are today.
So today, we're not just going to talk about money.
We're going to talk about being first gen, family, success, identity, healing, and what happens when you spent your whole life working hard and finally realize, wait, what does freedom actually
mean to me?
Oh, and I forgot to say she even wrote a memoir about it, too, which I'll also link down in the description box because it is.
Oh, my gosh.
I remember I read it and I can relate to so much about it, which will also touch base about it on here as well.
So welcome, JJ.
Yeah, thank you so much.

I always tell people, you know, I only make people call me doctor if they're being inconsiderate
or if they're rude.
Oh yeah, you

And people always ask me like, Oh really? What did you invest in? And I was like, it's, it's not the investments that enabled me to do that.

It's, You know, overcoming all of the money stories that I lived when I was little and relearning new money stories and new money beliefs that that really put me in a good place with my relationship with money that enabled me to be able to.

treat money like like the tool that it is right and not as the survival skill that we that we need um so yeah i'm really excited to to dig into it and um yeah that's what my memoir really is about right it's about finding my identity it's about healing and then of course wealth building
but the identity and the healing come before the wealth building
yeah
Yeah.
Sorry.
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Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of No Mas, Yes Girls, where we, your hosts, Vivian and DNA, talk about our healing journey.
Hello, everyone.
Welcome back to another episode.
Yes.
And today is, I mean, every episode is special.
But today I get to have a very special friend.
She's actually become, became like one of my close friends within the last couple of years.
And also my neighbor.
But today's conversation is a really special one because I, Dr. Jacqueline, hence the doctor.
She just got her doctorate degree not that long ago.
So congratulations once again.
And when you hear her story on paper, you're probably going to think, How did she do all of this? Like she's first gen.
She comes from Taiwanese parents.
She built a successful corporate career.
And eventually she became financially free and was able to retire at only 38
years old.
Oh, my God.
Amazing for that.
I need to clap for that.
And but that's not actually part of.
the story I'm more curious about.
Because behind all of those accomplishments, there's a woman who had to grow, who had to change, who had to heal, and probably unlearn a lot along the way.
And I think sometimes we see successful people and And I think sometimes we see successful people after they've made it, but we don't really see the fear, the family expectations, the pressure to succeed, the mistakes, or the version of themselves they had to let go to become who they really are today.
So today, we're not just going to talk about money.
We're going to talk about being first gen, family, success, identity, healing, and what happens when you spent your whole life working hard and finally realize, wait, what does freedom actually
mean to me?
Oh, and I forgot to say she even wrote a memoir about it, too, which I'll also link down in the description box because it is.
Oh, my gosh.
I remember I read it and I can relate to so much about it, which will also touch base about it on here as well.
So welcome, JJ.
Yeah, thank you so much.

I always tell people, you know, I only make people call me doctor if they're being inconsiderate
or if they're rude.
Oh yeah, you

And people always ask me like, Oh really? What did you invest in? And I was like, it's, it's not the investments that enabled me to do that.

It's, You know, overcoming all of the money stories that I lived when I was little and relearning new money stories and new money beliefs that that really put me in a good place with my relationship with money that enabled me to be able to.

treat money like like the tool that it is right and not as the survival skill that we that we need um so yeah i'm really excited to to dig into it and um yeah that's what my memoir really is about right it's about finding my identity it's about healing and then of course wealth building
but the identity and the healing come before the wealth building
yeah
Yeah.
Sorry.