Midlife & Beyond Conversations
Sep 22, 2026 · 40 min · 12 segments
How do you feel when you open your wardrobe? For many women, particularly as our bodies and lives change in midlife, getting dressed can become surprisingly complicated. Clothes that once felt right…
Sarah GaleGuest
Jo BlackwellHost
If you think about our clothes and what we wear, we think they're a superficial part of life.

They're actually an energetic embodiment that we either align with every morning or we misalign with.

When we find those essences and each of the three essences, they're completely unique to you, Jo.

I ran a community call a few nights ago this week and one of the women had just said, oh, I'm just struggling in my life right now and, you know, blah, blah, blah.

And I said, what are you wearing, honey? And she's like, and this particular essence, she had sexy as an essence actually.

And I'm like, well, sexy feminine is the, like it's the seat of your, I like to call it your sensual creatrix.

Think about what sexy is, right? For so many women, there's a real resistance to the word sexy because it's been so objectified.

So anyway, I received a text this morning and this woman said, my gosh, I got dressed in all my essences today.

If you think about our clothes and what we wear, we think they're a superficial part of life.

They're actually an energetic embodiment that we either align with every morning or we misalign with.

When we find those essences and each of the three essences, they're completely unique to you, Jo.

I ran a community call a few nights ago this week and one of the women had just said, oh, I'm just struggling in my life right now and, you know, blah, blah, blah.

And I said, what are you wearing, honey? And she's like, and this particular essence, she had sexy as an essence actually.

And I'm like, well, sexy feminine is the, like it's the seat of your, I like to call it your sensual creatrix.

Think about what sexy is, right? For so many women, there's a real resistance to the word sexy because it's been so objectified.

So anyway, I received a text this morning and this woman said, my gosh, I got dressed in all my essences today.
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