Maybe We Just Forgot What to Look For

Hello, hello, and welcome back to Lovely.

Happy Friday.

Today, it's just me.

Honestly, we haven't done a solo episode in a little bit.

You are going to get a little bit of an unfiltered version of my brain.

And I have a lot on my mind.

We've done some really exciting and fun episodes the last few months.

We've had a lot of great guests.

We had Clayton, who's a former bachelor.

For the first time, it's like I realized like, hey, you know, I don't need to like go chase after women and for validation and like through intimacy.

We had Jessica, who is a psychic medium, a professional astrologist, and also an animal communicator.

I can look at

your birth chart and tell if you prefer to use pencils or pens.

Health issues, like if you run on time or if you tend to be late, your tendency towards infidelity or monogamy or how long you go in bed.

Like, you can see everything in the birth chart, and you cannot see that from a sign.

We had Tim and Anna, who were like a really healthy, long-term couple.

We didn't know the rewards and the challenges and then the rewards of building a loving, conscious, intentional relationship.

And so how we got there, I would say, is by being absolutely determined to see what lay below the surface, to figure it out.

And we also had Gracie, who is an OnlyFans

creator.

The root of so much pain in this world comes from angry, unsatisfied, bitter men.

Somewhere between all those conversations, a lot has shifted for me.

You know, I think about dating a little bit differently, relationships a little bit differently than I did like six months ago.

It's also challenged a lot of things that I used to believe.

And I'm going to talk all about that in today's episode.

And rather than interviewing someone else, I'll let you into my brain for a little bit.

We'll do some life updates.

We'll do some of the biggest lessons I've taken away from some of the recent guests that I mentioned.

Some things I've been consuming, my thoughts on it.

Dating advice I've completely changed my mind on.

And we'll end it with a list that I'm calling things I've seen men do that would send low effort men into a coma.

So let's get into it.