Jun 23, 2026 · 46 min · 12 segments
Haylie walked into a family law office at seventeen, a self-described divorce court ordered and mentally disordered child of the system she would spend the next few years watching up close. Now…
Haylie GillespieGuest
probably naturally i never like everything it's just blurred together like it happened survival in it probably yeah
it's what your body uses naturally when you're like Just get me from here to there.
Is there any point at which you've been able to say, I don't know, give respect and honor for those skills it's given you, even if you don't really love how you got there?
So you had this – I was going to ask this a different way, but let me ask you this.
So let's say a judge who routinely just tosses out joint physical custody to families.
If you could go back, And honestly, in some ways, because you kind of can, I mean, you kind of can deliver a message that says, this is what you need to be considering when you just joint physical custody, these kids.
So we're doing this in Mississippi joint physical here is approximately 50 50.
So when judges do that for whatever reason, what do you want them to know about that choice they're making? Or at least to consider.

probably naturally i never like everything it's just blurred together like it happened survival in it probably yeah
it's what your body uses naturally when you're like Just get me from here to there.
Is there any point at which you've been able to say, I don't know, give respect and honor for those skills it's given you, even if you don't really love how you got there?
So you had this – I was going to ask this a different way, but let me ask you this.
So let's say a judge who routinely just tosses out joint physical custody to families.
If you could go back, And honestly, in some ways, because you kind of can, I mean, you kind of can deliver a message that says, this is what you need to be considering when you just joint physical custody, these kids.
So we're doing this in Mississippi joint physical here is approximately 50 50.
So when judges do that for whatever reason, what do you want them to know about that choice they're making? Or at least to consider.
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