Nobody wants to be your first Black girl

The difference between being desired and being fetishized, how to spot it inside thirty seconds, and exactly what to say back. **Join the #1 kinky BIPOC community anywhere:** kinkstersofcolor.com/inner-circle Storm, Aquariaaa and Jazz on the line between wanting somebody and collecting them. The tall one gets "I want to climb you like a tree." The short one gets "fun size." Neither is a compliment. The safety cue every top is trained to watch for — skin going red — does not show up on dark skin, so what are you actually looking for? And the man who used "CNC" in a DM to announce, in advance, that he would not stop. Chapters ⏱️00:00 — "I don't know you"04:04 — Wanting us is not liking us08:11 — "I want to climb you like a tree"13:39 — It's a no for me, dog15:50 — The drink that was meant to loosen her up21:34 — Two of us in the room is not diversity31:15 — My cheeks are not going to turn red36:56 — Nobody Black at your event? Ask why45:34 — That's not CNC, that's an assault48:59 — "No, thank you"54:42 — Would you say it to a white girl? Connect with us - Inner Circle: kinkstersofcolor.com/inner-circle - Instagram: @kinksters\of\color - TikTok: @kinkstersofcolor3 - YouTube: @kinkstersofcolor - Apple Podcasts: The KOC Podcast - Web: kinkstersofcolor.com - Business inquiries: contact@kinkstersofcolor.com Follow the show so the next one finds you. And tell us what you want us to get into — we might take it up in the next episode.