You work with women who appear successful on the outside but are struggling internally.
Why do you think so many successful women find it difficult to slow down and truly enjoy their lives?

I think it has to do with some beliefs that we picked up as kids or young adults based on what we saw other people doing or were told to do.

And, you know, that might have worked for us when we were children, that, you know, "I have to keep your room clean," "You have to do your homework," that kind of stuff.

But as an adult, you might not need to do all those things to, to fit into a family or to prove your, your worth or to be accepted.

So what worked as a kid might not be necessary now as an adult, and we carry those, and we want people to accept us.

So we, we have all that running in the background while we're trying to, you know, take care of kids and go to work and, and manage a relationship and so forth.

So it's just those things that we don't even think about that are guiding us that might not even be necessary as an adult.
You work with women who appear successful on the outside but are struggling internally.
Why do you think so many successful women find it difficult to slow down and truly enjoy their lives?

I think it has to do with some beliefs that we picked up as kids or young adults based on what we saw other people doing or were told to do.

And, you know, that might have worked for us when we were children, that, you know, "I have to keep your room clean," "You have to do your homework," that kind of stuff.

But as an adult, you might not need to do all those things to, to fit into a family or to prove your, your worth or to be accepted.

So what worked as a kid might not be necessary now as an adult, and we carry those, and we want people to accept us.

So we, we have all that running in the background while we're trying to, you know, take care of kids and go to work and, and manage a relationship and so forth.

So it's just those things that we don't even think about that are guiding us that might not even be necessary as an adult.
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