Erections and Pleasure

Erections.

Where do we start? Like, trying to remember, like my first, how old was I when I had my first erection? I think I was maybe like 10, 11, or that I can remember.

My first wet dream, that's what it was.

My first wet dream.

I was probably like 10 or 11.

And I remember waking up scared out of my mind.

I was like, what just happened to me? It was a messy, messy, messy moment in my life.

But it was, it, I think that's when I started to like think about it

more.

Because before that I was just like a kid running around having fun as a kid, like things you do, like running around playing with your family and friends and the dogs.

And then I think after that moment, sex became more of a frequent thought.

Yeah, but sometimes I think that they give a lot of importance for erections, and that is other ways to have pleasure without erection.

And that is also good to know for the old people, because sometimes the erections do not keep so well when you get old of course we have the add of some blue pills and other things to to give erection but sometimes i think that means they they they do uh they over uh uh

emphasize emphasize direction we

like to be hard and like ready to go

I think that's a big thing for us.

I think part of the reason, especially in gay culture, there is a lot of conversations around the little blue pill and the other things that help to stay hard, like the cock ring.

But I think we should broaden the conversation a little bit more to just be around pleasure in general because

Pleasure

doesn't equal, or sorry, erections don't equal pleasure, right? Like you don't have to be hard to get pleasure.

You don't have to come to get pleasure.

Like I think

pleasure is just fun and enjoying it and being in the moment.

And oftentimes you can get spent in other ways and not come, so.

And also focus on erection.