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What fears can you tell your younger self? No, which fears can you tell your younger self did or did not come true? or did come true a fear that i
had like growing up yeah no
yeah or
like if not like a actually no yeah fears
like a serious fear or something i just thought like oh growing up i don't want to do that or like yeah or that i overcame
both
like yeah okay you know how when we were all younger and we all thought like oh when i'm 21 and i'm 25 like you know i'll have a husband and kids and i'm so glad none of that came true um i don't know why we was thinking like that but i'm actually glad none of that came true for me and um something else
why are you happy that that that didn't come true for you though
Because at that, like, when I was younger and I was thinking about, like, you know, like, we used to think, like, 25 was so old.
Like, oh, my gosh, I have my husband and my kids by then.
Like,
no,
now that I've surpassed that, I wouldn't have wanted that at 25.
Like, that would have ruined me.
Like, you know, necessarily it's a fear now.
It wasn't a fear then.
Like, I don't know how to word that, but...
i feel like a lot of us when we was younger used to be like you know oh at 21 and like we used to thought those ages were so like significant and had a like we should be have this bite and have that bite
yeah
i'm glad none of that worked out
i wouldn't
know
um for me i would say um For me, I would say, like, I used to not be, like, no, I'm not going to say, like, I used to be bullied when I was, like, growing up.
Like, so I think I had a fear of, like, my life, like, turning out like that.
But then I realized, you know what, I had to, like, really learn to love myself.
What fears can you tell your younger self? No, which fears can you tell your younger self did or did not come true? or did come true a fear that i
had like growing up yeah no
yeah or
like if not like a actually no yeah fears
like a serious fear or something i just thought like oh growing up i don't want to do that or like yeah or that i overcame
both
like yeah okay you know how when we were all younger and we all thought like oh when i'm 21 and i'm 25 like you know i'll have a husband and kids and i'm so glad none of that came true um i don't know why we was thinking like that but i'm actually glad none of that came true for me and um something else
why are you happy that that that didn't come true for you though
Because at that, like, when I was younger and I was thinking about, like, you know, like, we used to think, like, 25 was so old.
Like, oh, my gosh, I have my husband and my kids by then.
Like,
no,
now that I've surpassed that, I wouldn't have wanted that at 25.
Like, that would have ruined me.
Like, you know, necessarily it's a fear now.
It wasn't a fear then.
Like, I don't know how to word that, but...
i feel like a lot of us when we was younger used to be like you know oh at 21 and like we used to thought those ages were so like significant and had a like we should be have this bite and have that bite
yeah
i'm glad none of that worked out
i wouldn't
know
um for me i would say um For me, I would say, like, I used to not be, like, no, I'm not going to say, like, I used to be bullied when I was, like, growing up.
Like, so I think I had a fear of, like, my life, like, turning out like that.
But then I realized, you know what, I had to, like, really learn to love myself.
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