FLASHBACK FRIDAY: For The Girls Who Are Worried About Their Timeline

This one is for the girls who feel or maybe have felt like she's falling behind.

in life, whether in love, career, friendships, milestones, the big things, the small things, we are unpacking the pressure of timelines.

We're talking about how to reclaim your pace because I've been there, I've done that.

We're talking about why your story is not late because again, been there, done that.

I'm going to share my journey with my timeline because I think that it's really important.

I think that's really... like relatable for girls to hear because any girl who has followed me from way back when you know when i started being on social media when i was always single um they like they know that i never was in a relationship all that stuff but i feel like people follow me now they know that i'm engaged they know that i'm getting married and i always get questions and comments you know about like You know, what do I do? I'm running out of time.

How do I meet someone? Can you give me advice on how to meet someone faster? That's actually kind of how this episode was inspired and how it came to be because I made a TikTok answering a question.

The question was, should I continue to see someone that I know is not my person or am I blocking my blessings? Then I shared my story time to do with that.

which then led to them saying, can you give me advice and tips on how to get closer to meeting my person? And it's like, if you know me, you would know, like, I can't tell you that because look how long it took me to find mine.

So we're going to unpack all of that.

And I want everyone to hear this journey and this story, even though it's from years ago, it's still relevant because it's how I got to the place that I'm at now.

And yeah, we're just talking about All things, letting your timeline unfold, believing that it's unfolding on the right time because society and social media, people like me, anyone that you see sharing, you know, where they're at in their life now, like when we post or when you see whatever you see and this and that, like we then create expectations in our heads.

And we create this illusion of the right timeline.

And then we start to see what other people have that we don't have and where they're at.

And that somehow connects to where we're not at.

And yeah, It's not it is it is so unrealistic for us to compare ourselves like this episode is not even about comparison.

But of course, I have to bring up comparison because we compare ourselves to other people.

Yet we would never walk in their shoes a day in our lives a day in their lives.

So how do you compare to people who are on a completely different journey than you? But we do.

And we find ourselves at one point or another, sitting back and looking at our life and questioning like, shouldn't I be ahead by now? Shouldn't I be further by now? Why is everybody around me getting engaged, getting married, getting promoted, having kids, and I'm not? What am I even doing with my life? Where am I going? What do I want for my life? I think I know what I want for my life.

So why am I not getting it? Because I've been so sure all this time.

Like we have these questions and we have these feelings of being behind.

and of being uncertain and unsure as to where things are going.

So today we are unpacking and talking about that very, very, very, very real, and very human.

It's very normal and very common to have the feeling of falling behind.