Feb 24, 2026 · 36 min · 10 segments
This week on Fashion Is My Foreplay, I’m joined by Ruben, creative, designer, body-paint enthusiast and self-described fashion alien. I originally found him on Instagram after a Reel where he talked…
Honestly, the way I describe it kind of changes day to day.
I would say that in a very broad sense, the clothes that I make kind of fit somewhere between, like, drag, street wear, and kind of, like, queer, over-the-top, artistic clothing.
I kind of, I like to, the way that I like to think about it at the moment is, I like to make things that allow queer people to be as authentic within themselves and their expression as possible and really, really perform that in an overtop way.
I really like to also blend the kind of line between fantasy and reality.
So when I'm designing a look or designing an outfit, I'm kind of thinking about the character who would wear this.
So this is like this like sexy jock from this kind of universe who's like a demon.
So he'd wear these kinds of things or like this one's more mechanical.
This one's more like clown like yeah but it always like comes down to like so it kind of comes
a little bit of like creating a character i suppose that's a really fun way of putting it
yeah yeah completely i mean that's how i got into fashion design really was yeah character design that's that's kind of how how i found it really really exciting so my big references are drag and sci-fi and video games really
They work quite well together as well.
Yeah, completely.
Because they're about designing characters
and
communicating something about you through what you wear, which obviously is a big part of fashion.
But it's a
huge part of drag.
Huge part of drag.
It is what drag is and it kind of is what streaming is.
And I
think drag has really developed over the past maybe 10 years as opposed to a man dressing as a woman.
Yeah.
Or whatever you want to call it at the beginning.
To now, drag is very much like, so very different i think it
Honestly, the way I describe it kind of changes day to day.
I would say that in a very broad sense, the clothes that I make kind of fit somewhere between, like, drag, street wear, and kind of, like, queer, over-the-top, artistic clothing.
I kind of, I like to, the way that I like to think about it at the moment is, I like to make things that allow queer people to be as authentic within themselves and their expression as possible and really, really perform that in an overtop way.
I really like to also blend the kind of line between fantasy and reality.
So when I'm designing a look or designing an outfit, I'm kind of thinking about the character who would wear this.
So this is like this like sexy jock from this kind of universe who's like a demon.
So he'd wear these kinds of things or like this one's more mechanical.
This one's more like clown like yeah but it always like comes down to like so it kind of comes
a little bit of like creating a character i suppose that's a really fun way of putting it
yeah yeah completely i mean that's how i got into fashion design really was yeah character design that's that's kind of how how i found it really really exciting so my big references are drag and sci-fi and video games really
They work quite well together as well.
Yeah, completely.
Because they're about designing characters
and
communicating something about you through what you wear, which obviously is a big part of fashion.
But it's a
huge part of drag.
Huge part of drag.
It is what drag is and it kind of is what streaming is.
And I
think drag has really developed over the past maybe 10 years as opposed to a man dressing as a woman.
Yeah.
Or whatever you want to call it at the beginning.
To now, drag is very much like, so very different i think it
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