Jun 29, 2026 · 11 min · 8 segments
The traditional translations of Gen. 2:24 have the man "leaving his father and mother," "clinging to his wife," and "becoming one flesh." The assumed frame of reference is that of marriage and sexual…
John WaltonGuest
David CapesHost
NIV translates it, that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

What social scenario is reflected with a man leaving his parents instead of a woman joining the husband's clan? What's implied by the verb davach, to cling or cleave to? And what does becoming one flesh mean? So every clause in the verse has problems associated with it.

And there's a lot of theological interpretation that goes into that, right? Absolutely.

And part of that is that these languages or ideas of marriage and family and such, those are very culturally connected.

Yes, they are culturally connected, yet lots of Christians reading the Bible tend to go to this passage and say, this is what institutes God's view of marriage.

That's a pretty high statement, and we want to make sure that we're reading the text well before we come to that kind of conclusion.

And so we have to ask, what is it talking about? And one of the ways that we can understand that is that it's not so much the idea that either the man fulfills the marriage by going to his in-law's house or that he joins their clan.

that is, the one he's in with his parents, and establishes a new community with his wife.

Well, we look at that today and we would say, well, okay, so you need to move out of your parents' house and need to have an apartment.

Our marriage customs are different, and yet – Aren't we doing the same thing? Aren't we establishing a new community? So that does

NIV translates it, that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

What social scenario is reflected with a man leaving his parents instead of a woman joining the husband's clan? What's implied by the verb davach, to cling or cleave to? And what does becoming one flesh mean? So every clause in the verse has problems associated with it.

And there's a lot of theological interpretation that goes into that, right? Absolutely.

And part of that is that these languages or ideas of marriage and family and such, those are very culturally connected.

Yes, they are culturally connected, yet lots of Christians reading the Bible tend to go to this passage and say, this is what institutes God's view of marriage.

That's a pretty high statement, and we want to make sure that we're reading the text well before we come to that kind of conclusion.

And so we have to ask, what is it talking about? And one of the ways that we can understand that is that it's not so much the idea that either the man fulfills the marriage by going to his in-law's house or that he joins their clan.

that is, the one he's in with his parents, and establishes a new community with his wife.

Well, we look at that today and we would say, well, okay, so you need to move out of your parents' house and need to have an apartment.

Our marriage customs are different, and yet – Aren't we doing the same thing? Aren't we establishing a new community? So that does
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