Aug 13, 2026 · 1 hr 9 min · 18 segments
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment…
Sharleen JoyntHostAndy LevineHost
"Dear Shandy, I feel enjoyment and amusement and equal amounts of introspection when I listen to your Q&A episodes."

"However, I have never had the desire to write in a question except when I do one thing: take a gummy edible." [laughs] "It started out slow.

My mind would wander to thinking about funny things you said during whichever episode I had most recently listened to, and I'd imagine what it'd be like to ask you this question.

Then the voice in my head got louder to the point where I almost caved a few times and wrote you guys this question." She almost caved.

After a lot of romantic, open conversations, we decided to move in together." The move is in a few months and I feel super excited about it, but a long-winded question sometimes pops into my head and I want to hear what you think.

Does the fact that moving in together would immensely help me financially and close the distance gap in our relationship, we live across the city, counteract the fact that I believe I am going to and want to marry him and feel excited and lovey-dovey and the normal amounts of nervous about it?

"Dear Shandy, I feel enjoyment and amusement and equal amounts of introspection when I listen to your Q&A episodes."

"However, I have never had the desire to write in a question except when I do one thing: take a gummy edible." [laughs] "It started out slow.

My mind would wander to thinking about funny things you said during whichever episode I had most recently listened to, and I'd imagine what it'd be like to ask you this question.

Then the voice in my head got louder to the point where I almost caved a few times and wrote you guys this question." She almost caved.

After a lot of romantic, open conversations, we decided to move in together." The move is in a few months and I feel super excited about it, but a long-winded question sometimes pops into my head and I want to hear what you think.

Does the fact that moving in together would immensely help me financially and close the distance gap in our relationship, we live across the city, counteract the fact that I believe I am going to and want to marry him and feel excited and lovey-dovey and the normal amounts of nervous about it?
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