How to Break Free from Relying on Referrals to Get Consulting or Coaching Clients with Cori Crawford Van Oss (Ep172)

## Wondering How to Get Consulting or Coaching Clients...Without Relying on Referrals? At first, relying on referrals to get consulting or coaching clients is great… and reliable. Or at least reliable enough. Your generous network sends business your way. Then thrilled former clients introduce you to new ones. Only problem? This works…until it stops and the question sets in: What do I do when getting clients primarily through relying on connections and referrals is no longer enough? If you have been asking yourself these questions, this episode is for you! In this conversation, seasoned leadership coach and my client Cori Crawford Van Oss and I take you behind the scenes of what it really takes to make the shift from the hustle of getting clients through asking for referrals and the agonizing waiting game to the flow of attracting the right clients – the ones you’re called to serve - to you.  We talk about the role that content plays in expanding your reach and your impact, and how to overcome the #1 barrier to getting started – which is clarity and confidence in who you help, the problems you solve, the value you create, and your unique perspective that drives how you think about and approach your consulting or coaching. We also got into how calling herself a trusted advisor (in addition to a coach) with the eyes to see things her clients can’t, helped her not only differentiate herself in the market but truly own her unique God-given gifting.  We talk about how remarkable content doesn’t just showcase our big ideas but meets clients where they are at each step in their buying journey. But the real power of owning our unique brand position, clarifying our message, and creating content isn’t about marketing but creating the conditions for transformation, as it provides the psychological safety that it requires. It’s about instilling trust, living our purpose, and making meaning out of our deepest wounds and most painful experiences, which is where the sources for our greatest credibility, empathy, and uniqueness lie.  If your real question isn’t just about making a shift in your approach to getting clients from chasing or waiting for them to drawing them to you, but it’s more about how to create sustainable success from the inside out, this episode is for you.  ## **WHERE TO DIVE IN** **\[00:00]** When Referrals Aren't Enough **\[01:48]** A Decades-Long Connection Comes Full Circle **\[06:12]** From Global Mission Work to Going Solo **\[12:06]** Why the Rebrand Had to Start From Scratch **\[16:13]** Naming the Real Problem: Growth Without Burnout **\[20:16]** The Pregnancy Metaphor: Growing at a Human Pace **\[37:23]** Your Ideal Client Is an Earlier Version of You **\[41:05]** Mapping Content to the Buyer's Journey **\[54:13]** The Rocket Metaphor: Superpowers Born From Pain ## **NEXT STEPS** Thanks for listening. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified. If you prefer video or want closed captions, you can watch all my episodes on YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/c/BetsyJordyn If you're on LinkedIn, come say hi! → https://www.linkedin.com/in/betsy-jordyn/ Learn more about Cori Crawford Van Oss's leadership coaching, trusted advisor, and workshop that sustain and increase the impact of mission leaders without burning out staff and volunteers → https://coricrawfordvanoss.com/ ## **MORE RESOURCES FOR YOU** Get free templates and guides to nail your niche, clarify your value, craft compelling messages, and position yourself for the right clients and opportunities → https://www.betsyjordyn.com/downloads Learn more about my VIP brand-building & messaging services, custom-designed for purpose-driven consultants and coaches → https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! Your support helps me reach more consultants and coaches who need these insights and inspiration 🎙 Thanks for tuning in to Consulting Matters! See you next week!