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Chosen Family

Asexuality In Long-Term Relationships

Sep 9, 2026 · 48 min · 20 segments

Mak and Alayna discuss veganism, vomiting, and answer a listener question: How common is it to manage a long-term relationship when you’re asexual? Thanks to our sponsor: Sign up and get 10% off at…

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Mak and Alayna discuss veganism, vomiting, and answer a listener question: How common is it to manage a long-term relationship when you’re asexual? Thanks to our sponsor: Sign up and get 10% off at…

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Speakers: Alayna JoyHostMak IngemiHost

Top entities: State Farm×11 Asexuality×2 premenstrual dysphoric disorder×4 Discord×2 Botulinum toxin×2

Show signals: SuitabilityLimitedBiasNot politicalAudience≈499k followers

PMDD and Period Symptoms6:13 – 8:32

A

6:13

Okay.

A

6:14

Girl, let me.

A

6:14

You just were ticking a lot of boxes.

A

6:17

To be clear, I'm not trying to diagnose you with anything.

A

6:19

I don't have that

6:20

power.

6:21

Severe, cyclical medical condition.

6:26

No, it is not severe.

6:27

Extreme anger, irritability, tension, sadness, or anxiety that feel overwhelming.

6:32

Nah, I just get the normal kind.

6:35

Okay.

6:36

Maybe I was a little, the way you

A

6:37

were describing it last time, it didn't sound like the normal time.

A

6:42

It sounded like I'm thinking about ending my life kind.

6:45

No, it's not that bad.

6:47

It's not that bad in the grand scheme of things I've been through much worse.

6:51

It's fine.

A

6:52

Okay.

A

6:52

It's

6:52

like normal period symptoms, you know? Okay, fair enough.

6:56

Fair enough.

6:57

People can't just have normal periods anymore.

6:59

The woke mob wants to diagnose everybody with PMDD.

A

7:05

I don't have it.

A

7:05

Listen, when you're telling me that every single month when you hit the week before your period, you feel like dying, that's just a few red flags.

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PMDDHealth > Mental Health > Emotional Well-being > Menstrual Health
AsexualityRelationships
Sexual OrientationRelationships > Asexuality
Romantic RelationshipsRelationships > Asexuality > Sexual Orientation
Communication in RelationshipsRelationships > Asexuality > Sexual Orientation > Romantic Relationships
Healthy RelationshipsLifestyle > Personal Development > Self-awareness > Coping Mechanisms
Lifestyle
MediaEntertainment
Discussion TopicsEntertainment > Media > Podcasts
Self-awarenessLifestyle > Personal Development
Cultural NormsSociety
Mental Health AwarenessSociety > Cultural Norms
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Relationships

PMDD and Period Symptoms6:13 – 8:32

A

6:13

Okay.

A

6:14

Girl, let me.

A

6:14

You just were ticking a lot of boxes.

A

6:17

To be clear, I'm not trying to diagnose you with anything.

A

6:19

I don't have that

6:20

power.

6:21

Severe, cyclical medical condition.

6:26

No, it is not severe.

6:27

Extreme anger, irritability, tension, sadness, or anxiety that feel overwhelming.

6:32

Nah, I just get the normal kind.

6:35

Okay.

6:36

Maybe I was a little, the way you

A

6:37

were describing it last time, it didn't sound like the normal time.

A

6:42

It sounded like I'm thinking about ending my life kind.

6:45

No, it's not that bad.

6:47

It's not that bad in the grand scheme of things I've been through much worse.

6:51

It's fine.

A

6:52

Okay.

A

6:52

It's

6:52

like normal period symptoms, you know? Okay, fair enough.

6:56

Fair enough.

6:57

People can't just have normal periods anymore.

6:59

The woke mob wants to diagnose everybody with PMDD.

A

7:05

I don't have it.

A

7:05

Listen, when you're telling me that every single month when you hit the week before your period, you feel like dying, that's just a few red flags.

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