Sep 15, 2026 · 59 min · 8 segments
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Yes, I do.
So that is, it's coming from r/AmITheAsshole, and it is, "Am I the asshole for telling people my brother's private story to tell them, to save my reputation?" What do you think from that alone?
I, it's really hard.
[laughs] I mean, I mean, it's really hard.
Yeah.
Because number one, I don't know what the story is, and I don't know who, who is he saving his reputation to? And I think that-
Yes
... that's what really matters, is because it's the, oh, are you saving face for your family? If you're saving face for your family, like, could be a little fucked up.
Like, you know, like-
Yes, I agree
... unnecessary.
If you're saving face for, like, your job or, like, you know, maybe, like, you're, like, preventing, I don't know, your own, like, divorce, yeah.
Like, I, you should tell somebody, you know?
Yeah.
Um, like, if it's gonna interfere with, like, your livelihood or, like, your r- like, interpersonal relationships more than just your family.
And I know that sounds, like, really bad for me to b- like, discount, like, being like, oh, it's okay.
You can, like, eat shit for your family in front of your family, but, like, sometimes I'm like, it's okay.
Yeah, no, I agree.
But anyway.
Yes, let's jump into this.
If it's about the jo- like, if it's about a job or, like, a partner, I think they're the asshole.
If it's not ...
Like, sorry, that they're not the asshole, but if it's for anything else, they might be the asshole.
And it also depends on what the story is.
Yes, I do.
So that is, it's coming from r/AmITheAsshole, and it is, "Am I the asshole for telling people my brother's private story to tell them, to save my reputation?" What do you think from that alone?
I, it's really hard.
[laughs] I mean, I mean, it's really hard.
Yeah.
Because number one, I don't know what the story is, and I don't know who, who is he saving his reputation to? And I think that-
Yes
... that's what really matters, is because it's the, oh, are you saving face for your family? If you're saving face for your family, like, could be a little fucked up.
Like, you know, like-
Yes, I agree
... unnecessary.
If you're saving face for, like, your job or, like, you know, maybe, like, you're, like, preventing, I don't know, your own, like, divorce, yeah.
Like, I, you should tell somebody, you know?
Yeah.
Um, like, if it's gonna interfere with, like, your livelihood or, like, your r- like, interpersonal relationships more than just your family.
And I know that sounds, like, really bad for me to b- like, discount, like, being like, oh, it's okay.
You can, like, eat shit for your family in front of your family, but, like, sometimes I'm like, it's okay.
Yeah, no, I agree.
But anyway.
Yes, let's jump into this.
If it's about the jo- like, if it's about a job or, like, a partner, I think they're the asshole.
If it's not ...
Like, sorry, that they're not the asshole, but if it's for anything else, they might be the asshole.
And it also depends on what the story is.
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