Your Family Is the Most Important Team You'll Ever Lead

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So we help couples... get really clear about what is most important to them, their values, their vision, their purpose, so that they can lead their family from that place and their definition of success and not everyone else's definition of success.

Because when you don't take the time to get clear about those things that are most important to you and the vision that you want for your family, you are going to find yourself leading your family based on very much a keeping up with the Joneses, hustle hard, and you don't even know why.

And so helping people get really grounded in that so that they can get off autopilot and get off that rat race and really be intentional about designing their family.

Most people by default just aspire to whatever ads are showing to them on Instagram or what the neighbors are doing or what they think is the right thing to be doing.

So how would you help a couple get clear?

Well, it starts with values, which is why I feel like our work is so aligned because we know that that is foundational.

If you don't do the values work first, nothing else matters, right? We help them get really clear first about their individual values and then about their family values and then helping them get clear at the individual level on what they really want out of life, their vision.

We call it your decade dream.

And so they each do an individual decade dream.

And then together they come together with their partner, their spouse to do a family decade dream.

So those two questions, who you are and what you want as individuals and who you are and what you want as a family.

And.

When you have those two things paired together, you are really able to filter out all the noise, a lot of decisions.

I like to talk about the decisions that are easy no's.

Those are easy.

You know, like things that you're like, oh, no, I definitely wouldn't do that.

But where we get tripped up is in the, sure, why not? Yeah, maybe.

That sounds okay.

And then you don't have a really good reason to say no.

But

it's not an enthusiastic, passionate yes.

And so then we end up living a life where our entire life is like, sure, why not? And so how do we use your values and your decade dream, who you are and what you want, and pair those two together so that you can really filter out all of those maybes and live a life that is filled with enthusiastic, passionate yeses?