Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs
Aug 24, 2026 · 23 min · 10 segments
**Hey Dog Lover 🐾** We spend a LOT of time trying to get our dogs to pay attention to us. Look at me. Come with me. Leave that. Let’s go. But how much attention are **we** paying to them? In…
We spend an awful lot of time trying to get our dogs to pay attention to us, don't we? "Look at me.
Come with me.
Leave that.
Let's go.
Listen.
Listen.
[laughs] Look at me." I, I- the look at me always ticks off me.
"Look at me.
Look at me.
Look at me." That's what it feels like.
"Look at me.
Look at me.
Pay attention." But how much attention are we actually paying to them? [laughs] Have you ever thought about that? If you want to matter more to your dog, maybe the answer isn't becoming more exciting, carrying better treats, or figuring out how to compete with everything else in the environment.
Have you heard that thing, be the sexier squirrel? Sexier than a squirrel.
Be the bigger squirrel.
Whatever.
Sexier.
Be the sexier squirrel.
[laughs] Anyway, [laughs] that just put weird images in my head.
My apologies.
Maybe, though, it's, it starts with learning how to actually step into their world.
Ooh.
Maybe if we want our dogs to care about what matters to us, maybe, just maybe, we need to start to care about what matters to them.
Ah.
[laughs] Let's get into it.
So if you're ready, stop chomping those chicken wieners and let's get to it.
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We spend an awful lot of time trying to get our dogs to pay attention to us, don't we? "Look at me.
Come with me.
Leave that.
Let's go.
Listen.
Listen.
[laughs] Look at me." I, I- the look at me always ticks off me.
"Look at me.
Look at me.
Look at me." That's what it feels like.
"Look at me.
Look at me.
Pay attention." But how much attention are we actually paying to them? [laughs] Have you ever thought about that? If you want to matter more to your dog, maybe the answer isn't becoming more exciting, carrying better treats, or figuring out how to compete with everything else in the environment.
Have you heard that thing, be the sexier squirrel? Sexier than a squirrel.
Be the bigger squirrel.
Whatever.
Sexier.
Be the sexier squirrel.
[laughs] Anyway, [laughs] that just put weird images in my head.
My apologies.
Maybe, though, it's, it starts with learning how to actually step into their world.
Ooh.
Maybe if we want our dogs to care about what matters to us, maybe, just maybe, we need to start to care about what matters to them.
Ah.
[laughs] Let's get into it.
So if you're ready, stop chomping those chicken wieners and let's get to it.