So I guess I'm here to defend the guys a little bit.

um thank you for the sweetness valeria when i made a joke uh and and also there was truth in it i guess i uh to uh find your way out of the good girl uh it's it's hard work as any other thing that you have been conditioned into and uh and also um For me, what you just open up is almost like a totally different direction.

And at the same time, it's not.

Because for me, it's one of the things where I can see in my own life, in the way I have done feminine violence, is to emasculate my husband, for example.

while not being able to do what's I would say like in the tantric tradition it's a part of like one of the core is that the feminine is called to worship the masculine and the masculine is called to adore the feminine.

And I think you put so beautiful and elegant words on like what is the power when you are like a master in that dance of truly being able to worship the masculine and by that the man in the dynamic.

and how much violence women actually can bring to the table if they're not have that wisdom and are not taught that or taught to be strong, independent women that is actually hyper independent.

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And so unfortunately, youth is wasted on the young.

I can notice I have this pull to just pause the conversation for a moment and just honor your wisdom Sarah like when you speak it feels like I'm sprinkled with like sparkles and that contains so much light so like it elevates me my way of just perceiving the world so I just want to say thank you and I also noticed that I had this moment, I think it's two weeks ago now.

I spent two days a week with my grandchild being a full-on grandmother.

And it's precious time and it's...

It is to be in timeless space.

And it came up, Sarah, when you spoke into, you know, communal planning and organizing to, like, I don't remember exactly how you worded it, but if you have listened, you know what she said.

But how the two of us come into right relationships to the rhythm that is actually there.

and finding new land so navigating towards navigating towards and in a future which is sort of pulling us as this is this whole thing is moving so that's the image i'm getting

And so unfortunately, um, youth is wasted on the young.

young.Mm. [laughs] I can notice I, I have this, uh, pull to just, uh, pause the conversation for a moment and just honor your wisdom, Sarah.

Like, uh, when you speak it feels like I'm sprinkled with like, uh, uh, sparkles and that that contains so much light.

So like it elevates me, my way of just, uh, perceiving the world.

So I, I just wanna say thank you.

Uh, and, um, I also noticed that, uh, like, um, [sighs] I had this moment, uh, I think it's two weeks ago now.

I, um, I spend two days a week with my grandchild, uh, being a full-on grandmother and it's, uh, it's precious time and it's, uh, um, it is to be in timeless space.

So that's the image I'm getting.