Jasmine?

Just wanted to piggyback off what Lauren said, 'cause honestly, in the job offer I landed and said yes to, the recruiter, I remember she told me that.

She was like, "I just want you to know," back to what Kayla said too, "there's a lot of other candidates that have a lot more experience than you." And I was like, "Why are you telling me this?" I was like, "Okay." And this is prior to the final round, and she's like, "But they just really like your personality.

They like your experience." And then I remember-- And this was pre- like right after my breakthrough.

And so I was just like, "Oh my God, it really is me.

I can do that." Like it was like, "Oh, me.

Oh, they like me.

Who going next?

What, what do you mean?

I told him we're not continuing with those doors.

They're cheap doors.

Like, to be honest, they're very cheap doors.

I don't want this on this house.

This doesn't go with the house.

But, but we didn't even discuss with the owner, like-

That's not the owner.

... and that is all I want.

Oh, absolutely.

You tell me that I can't have this, what do you mean? It's the only thing that I want to have.

So those were the years of basically trial and error, trial and error, trial and error, and everything works for five weeks or something like that, and you might lose five kilos, and then it just stopped working.

And I remember going to my GP, my primary care doctor that I had since I was like a teenager, and saying to him, "Something has to...

There has to be something better than this." And he was a lovely man, only retired last year.

And he said, "Well, what do you want, a magic pill?" I said, "No, but there's got to be something, Steve, that works.

So, you know I like to ask, what would you tell someone just starting out with intermittent fasting, or what do you wish you knew when you first started?

Ron wanted Miranda to go to a family function with him and the children

And this was his weekend with the children and she wanted to kind of relax and kind of take a break.

She really didn't want to go.

Miranda and I got to, to Ron's house, and Miranda told Ron that she wanted to help him get the children dressed for the open house, but she didn't want to go.

He was upset.

Um, they argued.

He put us out and he kept the children.

Jasmine took Miranda home and invited their friends Fred and Kevin over for dinner

What's, what's your next financial goal you're working on?

I was hoping that by the time I scheduled this, that we would actually be at a million dollars net worth, and so we are, uh, at 850 right now, and that is also due to him.

Because he read your blog, ever since then he has been doing a savings rate of about 20%, and just, uh, a lot of it was brute force for him.

I'll shout out the University of Michigan.

In their residency they give a lump sum, um, every year to residents to put away for their Roth, and so I got four years of a pretty substantial lump sum and that I didn't touch and I put towards my Roth, and so that's grown, like, significantly.

And so we've just done really well with saving and investing.

Prior to this year, we were... you know, he's a high income earner, so we were able to do a good amount of saving, and so we've benefited from him working all this time.

What would you say someone, to someone that's hesitating to borrow the money to go to school?

... would do anything maliciously.

That I don't believe.

[gentle music] I feel that I will never relinquish the possibility that there [laughs] was foul play.

Like, there will forever be a part of me that's like, some, uh, I...

Because at the end of the day, we did grow up with these people who, like, called us racist names and, like, said all kinds of shit we can't even remember.

So I 100% believe it is a possibility that someone did do something racist, whether it was to hurt me or not.

Like, that just is possible.

You know what I mean?

Mm-hmm.

And in your book, it was telling us to be, like, very specific.

So I'm thinking of, like, my favorite perfect vacation.

So I guess mine wasn't as detailed as it was supposed to be.

It was like, "I wanna be on the beach." He's like, "Okay, what beach?" I did respond, "I don't know," because I don't know that many beaches.

And then he was like, "So what are we doing at the beach?" "Relaxing on the boat." "What kind of boat?" "A yacht." "What kind of yacht?" "I don't know." Like, he wanted me to be very specific, and it wasn't I don't know because I don't wanna do this exercise.

It was I don't know 'cause I legitimately had never thought about it.

I can understand that not knowing what you wanna do at times can be overwhelming, but I think that giving something to try will start to help just broaden that overwhelmedness.