You Need Motivation to Begin
Here are steps to rebuild your motivation
Wisdom From The Other Side Of Recovery from Fibromyalgia, ME, CFS, POTS & MCS
Aug 12, 2026 · 13 min · 9 segments
Living with ME/CFS, Fibromyalgia, Long Covid, POTS, post-viral fatigue syndrome or related chronic illness can make motivation feel almost impossible. Not because you are lazy. Not because you are…
Dan NeufferHost
One of the interesting things about my own experience as well as the experience of many other people is that their turning point occurred after they hit their low.

Interesting, right? Why do things change after they get so bad, often unbearably bad, intolerably bad.

If you listen to people, you sometimes hear them reach a real low, like a dark place and say, I couldn't live like this anymore.

So how can it possibly trigger a turning point in their recovery? Well, the reason is because the pain of the situation was driving up their motivation to take action against all odds.

I'm not saying that people are sick because they're not motivated or they haven't tried hard enough.

Of course I get that there's no simple fix for this illness, but that's it because there is no simple fix.

And we need to take persistent and consistent action, like I discussed in a previous video.

So when we are in enough pain, and I don't mean physical pain, but rather emotional pain, it can be a powerful motivator for us to take action to create change.

You've seen this many times, like when people are in a bad relationship or toxic workplace, It often goes on for years and years and years until it gets so bad they can't take it anymore and then they make a change.

So the pleasure of being in a relationship can be a strong motivator and it can be strong enough for people to overcome the potential pain of rejection, right? The pleasure of winning a sporting event can be more than the pain of doing the training.

One of the interesting things about my own experience as well as the experience of many other people is that their turning point occurred after they hit their low.

Interesting, right? Why do things change after they get so bad, often unbearably bad, intolerably bad.

If you listen to people, you sometimes hear them reach a real low, like a dark place and say, I couldn't live like this anymore.

So how can it possibly trigger a turning point in their recovery? Well, the reason is because the pain of the situation was driving up their motivation to take action against all odds.

I'm not saying that people are sick because they're not motivated or they haven't tried hard enough.

Of course I get that there's no simple fix for this illness, but that's it because there is no simple fix.

And we need to take persistent and consistent action, like I discussed in a previous video.

So when we are in enough pain, and I don't mean physical pain, but rather emotional pain, it can be a powerful motivator for us to take action to create change.

You've seen this many times, like when people are in a bad relationship or toxic workplace, It often goes on for years and years and years until it gets so bad they can't take it anymore and then they make a change.

So the pleasure of being in a relationship can be a strong motivator and it can be strong enough for people to overcome the potential pain of rejection, right? The pleasure of winning a sporting event can be more than the pain of doing the training.
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You Need Motivation to Begin
Here are steps to rebuild your motivation
When Hitting Bottom Changes Everything
Sometimes recovery begins after reaching rock bottom
Why Progress Can Become Dangerous
Motivation must evolve as your recovery progresses
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