Adam Grant: 3 Myths About How People Bond

Instant chemistry is overrated. Keeping the peace can hold you back. And the person you can’t stand might become a close friend. **Adam Grant, Wharton organizational psychologist and bestselling author of *Think Again* and *Give and Take*,** joins Philip Meissner to reveal what we get wrong about human connection. Sharing insights from his new book, *Vibe*, and the surprising story of his feud with Brené Brown, he explains how stronger bonds begin when we rethink our assumptions. Discover: - Three myths that stop us from connecting - Why a difficult conversation can bring people closer - How rivals can become trusted friends - A better conversation starter than “What do you do?” - Why asking for help can build a stronger bond than small talk Watch the full episode to understand why we click, why we don’t, and how to connect with more people. **Timestamps**: 00:00 Introduction 00:44 Why Human Connection Matters 02:27 Connection in Hybrid Work 04:35 Three Myths About Connection 06:25 Becoming Friends with Brené Brown 09:59 Four Types of Relationships 12:11 Bringing People Together 17:05 Healthy Conflict Builds Connection 20:18 A Better Way to Start Conversations 21:31 AI and Human Relationships 23:29 Connecting as an Introvert 27:27 Connecting Through Shared Interests 30:15 Reasons for Optimism **Connect with Adam Grant:** LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/adammgrant Website: adamgrant.net **New book:** ***Vibe: The Secrets of Strong Connections in a Lonely World*** explores the social science of human connection and challenges conventional ideas about how we build strong relationships. What’s Next is a podcast exploring how technology, innovation, and global systems are shaping the future. Hosted by Philip Meissner, each episode features conversations with global leaders, builders, and thinkers working at the forefront of change. **🔗 Connect with Philip Meissner:** https://www.philipmeissner.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/pmeissner/ **🎧 Listen on:** **Spotify:** https://open.spotify.com/show/1KFVD3ozuUQiQozO381J5C?si=e2eb5967f84648e8 **Apple Podcasts:** https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/whats-next-with-philip-meissner/id1793306908 **"What’s Next with Philip Meissner"** A journey through our future life and work, and the place to discover your next favorite strategy and innovation. With global perspectives and fresh thinking, brought to you by some of the most exciting thinkers, builders, and leaders across the globe. Philip Meissner hosts fantastic guests and speakers, who share their journeys and knowledge in the most authentic and deep-dive style – to guide you through our world of tomorrow. From economy to science, from tech policy to AI in a fast-changing world. Subscribe right now wherever you get your podcast! Subscribe for more conversations on AI, emerging technologies, and global leadership. #AdamGrant #Vibe #HumanConnection #RelationshipPsychology #SocialPsychology #MeaningfulRelationships #CommunicationSkills #HealthyConflict #BuildingTrust #MakingFriends #Leadership #WorkplaceRelationships #Loneliness #BreneBrown #WhatsNext * * * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.