Your Biggest Barrier is Yourself

that's you know i've been thinking about that question that's such a hard question to answer because sometimes my my answer to it is yes and sometimes it's no yeah so when i really dug deep into that i think what came to me was what what is our definition of all that's where to start

yeah

it's all two or three things that are really, really important to us, or it's all a million things that we could or should have, right? So that's where we start, right? When we say, and a lot of people like come to me and they say, you seem to have it all, right? And then I ask, I'm like, of course I don't have it all.

Nobody has it all.

But what is your definition of that, right? So my answer is, If all are your top, up to top five priorities, it could be your family, your education, it could be money, your health.

Yes,

you

can.

And it requires an incredible amount of resilience and discipline.

You're going to be exhausted.

You're going to want to give up.

You're going to have to start learning what active coping is, what self-care really is.

Yeah.

You have to literally live like a pro, you know, a pro athlete that works like, you know, 12 to 16 hours a day, and then they have to do like ruthless rest and stuff like that.

So yes, you can.

It's very difficult, but you can do

it.

But if all is seeing my friends every week, seeing my family every week, you know, going to the park, making sure I exercise seven days a week.

In addition, I make millions of dollars and I'm the best wife, I'm the best mom.

And my kids see me, you know, 24 hours a week, you can't have it all.

So no, but I do think it's about the choices that we make as women.

What is all to us? And as long as we, you know, it's the concept of minimalism, right? Like you literally say, these are the top four and I'm going to achieve them.

Yes, you can.

I do believe in you.

Thank you for naming that.