Jul 24, 2026 · 1 hr 57 min · 17 segments
03:11 – Hitman Holla speaks on disadvantage of marriage to men 31:26 – Healthy love is scary 46:30 – Sarah Fontenot speaks on how she escaped hyper-independence 01:06:34 – Women who move like they…
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So it's a lose-lose game when it comes to a man's side of the marriage, if it was to go wrong.
You know what I mean? When everything is going good and your wife is who you want her to be and all of these things, marriage is great.
But on divorce day, you a lot of times see a different side of that woman, maybe a different version of that woman that you've never seen.
And a lot of men complain about the backlash and the weight and the loss that they have to take on the back end of an unsuccessful marriage.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
And I think that's most men, you know, but most men going, most men go in knowing that, This could fail.
However, we feel that we chose the best person for us.
And so despite what the numbers say, despite how other people may tell you things are going to go, regardless, you feel like you chose the right person and you can see it through.
Right.
And so with that mindset, you know, you you you trick yourself, you know what I mean? And you're going to do whatever it takes to make sure that that relationship is successful and successful.
You know, it is hard because when you do fail as a man, especially as a man that's solid and wants to do all the right things, that failure weighs heavy on us.
And that's one of the biggest things.
We don't want to fail at all.
I think that's why sometimes we're too patient.
Sometimes we may overextend our stay when we don't need to.
But part of that, that's what a marriage is about.
It's about overcoming some of those obstacles.
And sometimes you just have to do self-reflection.
So it's a lose-lose game when it comes to a man's side of the marriage, if it was to go wrong.
You know what I mean? When everything is going good and your wife is who you want her to be and all of these things, marriage is great.
But on divorce day, you a lot of times see a different side of that woman, maybe a different version of that woman that you've never seen.
And a lot of men complain about the backlash and the weight and the loss that they have to take on the back end of an unsuccessful marriage.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
And I think that's most men, you know, but most men going, most men go in knowing that, This could fail.
However, we feel that we chose the best person for us.
And so despite what the numbers say, despite how other people may tell you things are going to go, regardless, you feel like you chose the right person and you can see it through.
Right.
And so with that mindset, you know, you you you trick yourself, you know what I mean? And you're going to do whatever it takes to make sure that that relationship is successful and successful.
You know, it is hard because when you do fail as a man, especially as a man that's solid and wants to do all the right things, that failure weighs heavy on us.
And that's one of the biggest things.
We don't want to fail at all.
I think that's why sometimes we're too patient.
Sometimes we may overextend our stay when we don't need to.
But part of that, that's what a marriage is about.
It's about overcoming some of those obstacles.
And sometimes you just have to do self-reflection.
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